看着我的眼睛
Look Me in the Eye
John Elder Robison · 初版 2007 年
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打从小时候起，John Robison 就渴望与他人建立联系，但到了青少年时期，他那些古怪的习惯——脱口而出不着边际的话、回避眼神接触、拆解收音机，以及挖五英尺深的坑（把弟弟塞进去）——为他招来了“社会异类”的标签。他的母亲对着灯具自言自语，父亲则整晚把自己泡在雪利酒里，两人都无法给予他任何引导。难怪他投向了机器的怀抱，至少机器是值得信赖的。在逃离父母并从高中辍学后，他的特异才能
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……学校。要么我对这门课凭直觉就能秒懂、根本不需要人教，要么就完全摸不着头脑、必须全靠自学。我一直搞不懂为什么会这样，直到我40多岁时，一个刚读完约翰·埃尔德·罗比森写的《看我的眼睛》（LOOK ME IN THE EYE）的朋友建议我读读这本书，因为她觉得我和作者太像了。我读了那本书，整个人都惊呆了。没过多久我就拿到了正式确诊。这解释了太多困惑……
…school. I either grasped the subject intuitively and didn't need to be taught, or I didn't get it at all, and had to teach myself. I never quite understood this, but in my 40s a friend who had just read LOOK ME IN THE EYE, by Jon Elder Robison, suggested that I read the book, because I reminded her of him. I read the book and my head exploded. Not long after that I was officially diagnosed. It explained so many things…
……谱系（spectrum），你只是搞错了社交互动的方式——如果你请不起心理治疗师，可以去找找这方面相关的书。可惜我现在想不起别的，除了约翰·埃尔德·罗比森写的《看我的眼睛》（Look me in the eye）。另外，当你找不到工作时，终极解决之道就是自己开公司。我知道在快要流落街头时这听起来很扯淡，但你可以考虑……
…spectrum and you simply got wrong how social interactions work - if you cannot afford a therapist, you could look around for books on the topic. Unfortunately can't think of any now, apart from maybe "Look me in the eye" by John Elder Robison Then the ultimate way to get a job when you are unemployable is to start a company. I know this sounds stupid when you are on the brink of being homeless, but you could consider…
80年代很多重金属乐手本质上都是大极客（nerds），这算是个公开的秘密了。约翰·埃尔德·罗比森在他的书《看我的眼睛》（Look Me In The Eye）里写到过为 KISS 这样的大牌乐队设计带特效的吉他——比如能喷烟雾之类的——而且还见到了乐队成员。他确实把他们形容成了“nerds”（自己也深陷……
It's an open secret that many of the heavy metal musicians on the 80s scene were huge nerds. John Elder Robison in his book Look Me In The Eye wrote about designing guitars with special effects -- they could belch smoke, etc. -- for major bands like KISS, and got to meet the band members. He did describe them as "nerds" (being very much on the…
天哪，这家伙写了4本书，全都是关于自闭症的？- 《看我的眼睛：我的阿斯伯格生活》（Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's，2007）- 《与众不同：我的阿斯伯格冒险，给同道者、格格不入者、家庭及老师的建议》（Be Different: My Adventures with Asperger's and My Advice for Fellow Aspergians, Misfits, Families, and Teachers，2012）- 《抚养卡比：一对父子的奇遇》（Raising Cubby: A Father and Son's Adventures……
Jesus Christ, this guy is the author of 4 books all related to autism? - Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's (2007) - Be Different: My Adventures with Asperger's and My Advice for Fellow Aspergians, Misfits, Families, and Teachers (2012) - Raising Cubby: A Father and Son's Adventures…