道德浪女
The Ethical Slut
Dossie Easton、Janet Hardy · 初版 1997 年
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对于渴望超越传统一夫一妻制的人士，以及任何希望提升爱情、性和亲密关系技能的人而言，The Ethical Slut 是首选指南。它将为你开启一段冒险与自由之旅，这种自由来自于重新定义你与朋友和恋人的相处之道。Janet W. Hardy 和 Dossie Easton 分享了她们在实践成功且符合道德的 polyamory 过程中总结出的技巧、技能与理念，包括开诚布公的沟通、情感坦诚以及嫉妒心理的管理。这本更新且……
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……能找得到，而且比我读过的任何同类主题的书都要好得多、深刻得多。- 马克·曼森的《模式：通过诚实吸引女性》+《不在乎的精妙艺术》- 多西·伊斯顿和珍妮特·哈迪的《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）+ 富兰克林·沃克斯和伊芙·里克特的《不止两人》+ 特里斯坦·陶尔米诺的《打开心扉》
…available, and significantly better and more fundamental than anything else I found written on the topic. - Models: Attract Women through Honesty + The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson - The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy + More than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert + Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
还有一些圈子在坚持，并且还在不断发展……非一夫一妻（ENM）/多边恋社区提供了一个很好的框架，能让人以可控的方式去实践。伊斯顿和哈迪写的《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）是一本极好的书。我希望更多人愿意挑战自己这一面的认知。它真的为性和爱打开了全新的可能性。此外，情感上的……
There are pockets of it still floating around and continuing in development... the ENM/polyamory communities provide a good framework for going about it in a manageable way. "The Ethical Slut" by Easton and Hardy is a very good book. I wish more people would be willing to challenge this part of themselves. It really opens up entirely new possibilities for sex and love. Plus, the emotional…
这是建立在一种假设之上的，即认为性必须要求对他人有极高的关怀度。如果你真的对一个性与浪漫亲密关系并不画等号的世界感兴趣，我建议读读《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）。
This is operating on the assumption that sex requires caring about other people at a high capacity. I'd suggest a read of The Ethical Slut if you're actually interested in a world where sex and romantic intimacy aren't the same thing.
自助类书籍之类的东西可以成为情绪安抚物。刚接触多边恋那会儿，虽然我有《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）的 PDF，但我记得自己当时特别想要一本纸质书放背包里，感到焦虑/嫉妒/拿不准的时候就随手翻翻。
Self-help books and the like can be comfort objects. When I was new to poly, though I had a PDF of The Ethical Slut, I remember wanting a physical copy to keep in my backpack and thumb through when I felt worried/jealous/uncertain.
我强烈反对《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）这本书。它实际上是在纵容对伴侣的虐待和冷漠——尤其是当伴侣对开放式关系感到恐惧、毫无兴趣或心生嫉妒时。它基本上是在鼓励人们爱怎么搞就怎么搞……
I strongly disagree about “The Ethical Slut.” The book endorses abuse and lack of compassion towards partners that are afraid, uninterested, or jealous about the idea of open relationships. It encourages people to basically do what they personally…
……喜欢纸质书。但我敢打赌，未来大多数人宁愿把它数字化存储，随时可以调出来看。尤其是如果他们担心被人看见书架上放着《如何做一个男人》或者《道德浪女》（The Ethical Slut）的话。
…like physical books. But I bet most people, in the future, would rather have it stored and available digitally at all times. Especially if they're worried about people seeing "How to be a Man" or "The Ethical Slut" on their bookshelves.