不做老好人
No More Mr. Nice Guy
Robert A. Glover · 初版 2001 年
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为什么值得读
- 识别并消除讨好行为
- 提供大量具体实操练习
- 帮助内向者更果断自信
破除了“nice guy syndrome”（好人综合征）——即通过牺牲自我去讨好他人以期获得幸福、爱与满足感的心理，并就如何重新找回自我、重振性生活以及与他人建立更健康融洽的关系提供了指导建议。
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No More Mr. Nice Guy
Robert A. Glover · 初版 2001 年
破除了“nice guy syndrome”（好人综合征）——即通过牺牲自我去讨好他人以期获得幸福、爱与满足感的心理，并就如何重新找回自我、重振性生活以及与他人建立更健康融洽的关系提供了指导建议。
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……提升你的男子气概和自信心，尤其是在面对其他男人时？我找的不是跳伞或疯狂冒险这类东西。非常感谢任何建议，或者推荐的书籍/文章（比如 Robert A. Glover 的《No More Mr. Nice Guy》）。多谢
…boost your manly power and confidence, especially with other Men? I'm not looking for stuff like sky-diving or crazy risk takings. Really appreciate any advice, or books/articles recommendations (e.g. No more mr Nice Guy, by Robert A. Glover) Thanks
我是个内向的男生，有一本书在社交场合真帮了我大忙，让我变得坚定、自信、随性而且快乐，那就是 Robert Glover 的《No More Mr Nice Guy》。强烈推荐！http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 我买了有声书版本，这也是少数几本我听过不止一次的有声书。我还……
I am an introvert male and one book that really helped me be assertive, certain, spontaneous, and happy in the social arena is "No more Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. Highly recommended! http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 I have the audiobook version and it's one of few audiobooks that I've listened to more than once. I also…
这方面推荐的书籍：- Robert A. Glover 的《No More Mr. Nice Guy》：一本教你识别并根除老好人行为的好书，里面有大量的练习。- Manuel J. Smith 的《When I say no I feel guilty》：包含大量实例的技巧书，教你如何……
Book recommendations in that respect: - "No more Mr. Nice Guy" Robert A. Glover: A great book on identification and elimination of nice guy behaviors with lots of exercises. - "When I say no I feel guilty" Manuel J. Smith: Techniques with lots of examples on how…
要想成为一个成熟（即不仅是小孩子气）的反权威主义者，推荐阅读：Robert Anton Wilson 的《Prometheus Rising》和 Robert Glover 的《No More Mr Nice Guy》。我还会加上 Robert Moore 的《King, Warrior, Magician, Lover》，偶尔也可以逛逛 LessWrong.com（如果想在其中游刃有余，了解认知偏差的陷阱会很有帮助……
Good reading to become a mature (ie not just childish) anti-authoritarian: "Prometheus Rising" by Robert Anton Wilson and "No more Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I would also throw in "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" by Robert Moore, and maybe an occasional dose of LessWrong.com (helps to know of cognitive bias pitfalls if one wants to dance…
……往往有更多人（尤其是男性）除了要应付人生的各种其他课题外，还要为人际交往和恋爱苦恼。为此，我推荐（按顺序）：Robert Glover 的《No More Mr. Nice Guy》、Mark Manson 的《The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck》、Mark Manson 的《Models》。对于想深入了解男子气概（为了理解自己或其他具有男性特质的人）的读者：David Deida 的《The Way of the……
…tend to have more people (especially male) who struggle with socialising with others and romance on top of every other part of the human condition. To that end, I recommend (in order): Robert Glover - No More Mr. Nice Guy Mark Manson - The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Mark Manson - Models For those looking into reading into masculinity (to understand yourself or other masculine people: David Deida - The Way of the…
硬技能很容易学。个人软实力和更高的自我认知才是真正让你走上快车道的东西。1) 人生策略看 Scott Adams 的《How to fail at almost everything》。2) 培养决断力并无论如何都能做真实的自己，看 Robert Glover 的《No More Mr Nice Guy》。3) 虽说有点俗套，但在个人和职业陷入低谷时，《The Power of Now》是极佳的心灵归宿。祝好运，一帆风顺……
Practical skills are easily acquired. Personal skills and greater self-awareness are what really fast-track you. 1) Scott Adams 'How to fail at almost everything' for life strategy. 2) Robert Glover's 'No more Mr Nice Guy' for assertiveness and being your authentic self no matter what. 3) As cliche as it is, 'The Power of Now' is a great source to return to in times of personal and professional woes. Good luck and Godspeed…