……‘如何相处’的书单。对人生的其他领域同样重要。《深度工作》（Deep Work），讲人们喜欢/需要工作的不同方式。乔安娜·菲尔德（马里恩·米尔纳）的《论无法画画》（On Not Being Able To Paint，1950）。她在1930年代写的《属于自己的生活》（A Life Of One's Own）和《闲暇的实验》（An Experiment in Leisure），我25年多前就读过，而且极为喜欢。《属于自己的生活》讲的是她如何通过写日记来了解自己，我当时也正好开始做这事。……
…a Relationship' list. Equally important for other areas of life. Deep Work on different ways people like/need to work. On Not Being Able To Paint (1950) by Joanna Field (Marion Milner). I read her A Life Of One's Own and An Experiment in Leisure (both from the 1930s) 25+ years ago, and loved them dearly. A Life Of One's Own is about her using her diary to learn about herself, something I'd started doing at the time.…
……（在必要时），韦恩·戴尔的前两本书《你的误区》（Your Erroneous Zones）和《拉动自己的缰绳》（Pulling Your Own Strings，和埃利斯类似），露易丝·海讲爱自己的书，SARK 的前8本书，罗伯特·富尔格姆的所有作品，乔安娜·菲尔德/马里恩·米尔纳的《属于自己的生活》和《闲暇的实验》（心理自我探索）。爱默生的散文。另外，记日记对于发现自己的行为模式非常有帮助，比如我会去描述某种情绪……
…where necessary), Wayne Dyer's first two books Your Erroneous Zones and Pulling Your Own Strings (similar to Ellis), Louise Hay on loving yourself, SARK's first 8 books, everything by Robert Fulghum, A Life of One's Own and An Experiment in Leisure by Joanna Field/Marion Milner (psychological self-explorations). Emerson's essays. Also keeping a diary was very useful for seeing patterns, e.g. I'd describe some emotion…
Severely underappreciated (IMO) is British psychiatrist Marion Milner's A Life of One's Own[1] (1934, as "Joanna Field") - an extraordinary recounting of the author's subjective yet diligent observational study of her own awareness and mental processes from first principles and with as few assumptions…
…person, to the sounds in your backyard, to a thought or a memory. Covert attention is the virtual movement of deep processing from one item to another. very much put me in mind of an unusual book: A Life of One's Own (Marion Milner, 1934) - in particular, this: At any moment there exist in the fringes of my thought faint patternings which can be brought to distinction when I look at them. Like a policeman with…
……每个人都有自己心头好，不过对我很有帮助的有这些——SARK 的前五六本书，保罗·库尔茨的《充沛的活力》（Exuberance），卡罗尔·劳埃德的《创造值得活的人生》（Creating a Life Worth Living），乔安娜·菲尔德/马里恩·米尔纳以《属于自己的生活》开头的那些书，理查德·巴赫的书，奥斯汀·克里昂的书，《禅与谋生的艺术》（Zen and the Art of Making a Living），特里斯汀·雷纳的《新日记》（The New Diary），本·赞德的《可能性的艺术》（The Art of Possibility），葛拉西安的《处世的艺术》（The Art of Wordly Wisdom）。蒙田。普鲁塔克。……
…Everyone has their own favourites, but some that helped me - SARK's first half-dozen books, Paul Kurtz Exuberance, Carol Lloyd Creating a Life Worth Living, Joanna Field/Marion Milner's books starting with A Life of One's Own, Richard Bach books, Austin Kleon books, Zen and the Art of Making a Living, Tristine Rainer The New Diary, Ben Zander The Art of Possibility, Gracian's The Art of Wordly Wisdom. Montaigne. Plutarch.…
…and it turned out that the quote was the only interesting thing in it. But what a quote. I don't know of anything more relevant. If any of you want to explore Marion Milner, the place to start is "A Life of One's Own"- a work of original genius: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Ones-Own-Marion-Milner/dp/041555.... Everyone says "think for yourself" but she actually did it. Oh and her brother won the Nobel Prize in physics.…
……‘如何相处’的书单。对人生的其他领域同样重要。《深度工作》（Deep Work），讲人们喜欢/需要工作的不同方式。乔安娜·菲尔德（马里恩·米尔纳）的《论无法画画》（On Not Being Able To Paint，1950）。她在1930年代写的《属于自己的生活》（A Life Of One's Own）和《闲暇的实验》（An Experiment in Leisure），我25年多前就读过，而且极为喜欢。《属于自己的生活》讲的是她如何通过写日记来了解自己，我当时也正好开始做这事。……
…a Relationship' list. Equally important for other areas of life. Deep Work on different ways people like/need to work. On Not Being Able To Paint (1950) by Joanna Field (Marion Milner). I read her A Life Of One's Own and An Experiment in Leisure (both from the 1930s) 25+ years ago, and loved them dearly. A Life Of One's Own is about her using her diary to learn about herself, something I'd started doing at the time.…
……（在必要时），韦恩·戴尔的前两本书《你的误区》（Your Erroneous Zones）和《拉动自己的缰绳》（Pulling Your Own Strings，和埃利斯类似），露易丝·海讲爱自己的书，SARK 的前8本书，罗伯特·富尔格姆的所有作品，乔安娜·菲尔德/马里恩·米尔纳的《属于自己的生活》和《闲暇的实验》（心理自我探索）。爱默生的散文。另外，记日记对于发现自己的行为模式非常有帮助，比如我会去描述某种情绪……
…where necessary), Wayne Dyer's first two books Your Erroneous Zones and Pulling Your Own Strings (similar to Ellis), Louise Hay on loving yourself, SARK's first 8 books, everything by Robert Fulghum, A Life of One's Own and An Experiment in Leisure by Joanna Field/Marion Milner (psychological self-explorations). Emerson's essays. Also keeping a diary was very useful for seeing patterns, e.g. I'd describe some emotion…
（在我看来）英国精神分析学家马里恩·米尔纳（以“乔安娜·菲尔德”为笔名）在1934年写的《属于自己的生活》[1]严重被低估了——作者从第一性原理出发，在尽可能少做假设的前提下，对自己的意识和心理过程进行了一次主观却极其用心的观察研究，记录极为非凡……
Severely underappreciated (IMO) is British psychiatrist Marion Milner's A Life of One's Own[1] (1934, as "Joanna Field") - an extraordinary recounting of the author's subjective yet diligent observational study of her own awareness and mental processes from first principles and with as few assumptions…
……一个人，转移到后院的声音，再转移到一个念头或记忆上。隐蔽注意（Covert attention）是指深度处理在不同对象之间的虚拟移动。这让我想起一本很不寻常的书：马里恩·米尔纳1934年的《属于自己的生活》——尤其是这段：在任何时刻，我的思维边缘都存在着隐约的图样，当我注视它们时，它们就会变得清晰分明。就像一个警察拿着……
…person, to the sounds in your backyard, to a thought or a memory. Covert attention is the virtual movement of deep processing from one item to another. very much put me in mind of an unusual book: A Life of One's Own (Marion Milner, 1934) - in particular, this: At any moment there exist in the fringes of my thought faint patternings which can be brought to distinction when I look at them. Like a policeman with…
……每个人都有自己心头好，不过对我很有帮助的有这些——SARK 的前五六本书，保罗·库尔茨的《充沛的活力》（Exuberance），卡罗尔·劳埃德的《创造值得活的人生》（Creating a Life Worth Living），乔安娜·菲尔德/马里恩·米尔纳以《属于自己的生活》开头的那些书，理查德·巴赫的书，奥斯汀·克里昂的书，《禅与谋生的艺术》（Zen and the Art of Making a Living），特里斯汀·雷纳的《新日记》（The New Diary），本·赞德的《可能性的艺术》（The Art of Possibility），葛拉西安的《处世的艺术》（The Art of Wordly Wisdom）。蒙田。普鲁塔克。……
…Everyone has their own favourites, but some that helped me - SARK's first half-dozen books, Paul Kurtz Exuberance, Carol Lloyd Creating a Life Worth Living, Joanna Field/Marion Milner's books starting with A Life of One's Own, Richard Bach books, Austin Kleon books, Zen and the Art of Making a Living, Tristine Rainer The New Diary, Ben Zander The Art of Possibility, Gracian's The Art of Wordly Wisdom. Montaigne. Plutarch.…
……结果发现那句引用居然是里面唯一有意思的内容。但那句话真是绝了。我想不出还有什么比它更切中要害的。如果你们有人想了解马里恩·米尔纳，最好的起点就是《属于自己的生活》——一部天才原创之作：https://www.amazon.com/Life-Ones-Own-Marion-Milner/dp/041555.... 每个人都在说“独立思考”，但她是真正做到了。哦对了，她哥哥还得过诺贝尔物理学奖。……
…and it turned out that the quote was the only interesting thing in it. But what a quote. I don't know of anything more relevant. If any of you want to explore Marion Milner, the place to start is "A Life of One's Own"- a work of original genius: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Ones-Own-Marion-Milner/dp/041555.... Everyone says "think for yourself" but she actually did it. Oh and her brother won the Nobel Prize in physics.…