……不用学搭讪话术（PUA）也能提升社交技能。那些教你在不搞 PUA 的情况下改善社交技能的优秀资源，通常是由具备临床经验的心理学家或精神科医生撰写的，比如戴维·伯恩斯（David Burns）的《亲密关系》（Intimate Connections，也是《感觉良好》Feeling Good 的作者，那是一本讲认知行为疗法的权威著作）。退一步说，专注于财务独立和稳定，也能为搞好……打下良好的基础。
…social skills without studying pickup artistry. Good resources for improving social skills without pickup artistry are typically written by psychologists or psychiatrists with clinical experience, such as "Intimate Connections" by David Burns (same author as "Feeling Good," a reputable book on cognitive-behavioral techniques). At the least, a focus on financial independence and stability can be a good foundation to working…
Odds are your last sentence was a figure of speech, but I will go ahead and post this as a reference: "Intimate connections" by David Burns is a well regarded book on the somewhat related subject of building relationships. http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
……这位 Google 工程师确保了其中大部分内容都是有循证依据的 [2]。显然学完这门课你也会意识到自己得去搞搞有氧运动。戴维·伯恩斯是我最喜欢的心理学家（我读过他的《亲密关系》Intimate Connections，他的成名作是《感觉良好》Feeling Good）。针对你的问题他给出过答案，那就是《十天建立自尊》（Ten Days to Self Esteem）[3]。不过，看了评论之后，你可能直接买他的其他书就行。……
…Google engineer who made sure most of it was evidence-based [2]. Obviously you'll also realize because of the course you want to pickup aerobic exercise. David Burns is my favorite psychologist (I read Intimate Connections from him, his claim to fame is Feeling Good). He has an answer to your question, which is Ten Days to Self Esteem [3]. Though, when I read the reviews you might just want to get one of his other books.…
……培养我一直想拥有的技能。最后再简单提一句：每当我被负面想法困住时，参考 David Burns 的《Feeling Good》进行 CBT 自我治疗，效果很好。Burns 的《Intimate Connections》也在感情建议上帮了我，这有助于享受当下。
…developing skills I always wanted to have. Last quick note: I got a lot of mileage from referring to "Feeling Good" by David Burns for self-treatment with CBT whenever I felt trapped by negative thoughts. "Intimate Connections" also by Burns helped me for relationship advice, which helps with enjoying the present.
…the Burns book recommendation. Burns wrote a book in the 80s about how to meet people. It was the best book I ever read on how to meet girls. No gimmicks, just advice that works. http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
I read Intimate Connections from David Burns (author of Feeling Good) and while it was after my low self-esteem period, I thought to myself "if only I had this book, it'd have taken 2 years less."
……不用学搭讪话术（PUA）也能提升社交技能。那些教你在不搞 PUA 的情况下改善社交技能的优秀资源，通常是由具备临床经验的心理学家或精神科医生撰写的，比如戴维·伯恩斯（David Burns）的《亲密关系》（Intimate Connections，也是《感觉良好》Feeling Good 的作者，那是一本讲认知行为疗法的权威著作）。退一步说，专注于财务独立和稳定，也能为搞好……打下良好的基础。
…social skills without studying pickup artistry. Good resources for improving social skills without pickup artistry are typically written by psychologists or psychiatrists with clinical experience, such as "Intimate Connections" by David Burns (same author as "Feeling Good," a reputable book on cognitive-behavioral techniques). At the least, a focus on financial independence and stability can be a good foundation to working…
你的最后一句话大概率只是一句修辞，但我还是发出来当个参考吧：戴维·伯恩斯（David Burns）写的《亲密关系》（Intimate connections）是一本广受好评的书，讲的就是建立人际关系这个有点相关的话题。http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
Odds are your last sentence was a figure of speech, but I will go ahead and post this as a reference: "Intimate connections" by David Burns is a well regarded book on the somewhat related subject of building relationships. http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
……这位 Google 工程师确保了其中大部分内容都是有循证依据的 [2]。显然学完这门课你也会意识到自己得去搞搞有氧运动。戴维·伯恩斯是我最喜欢的心理学家（我读过他的《亲密关系》Intimate Connections，他的成名作是《感觉良好》Feeling Good）。针对你的问题他给出过答案，那就是《十天建立自尊》（Ten Days to Self Esteem）[3]。不过，看了评论之后，你可能直接买他的其他书就行。……
…Google engineer who made sure most of it was evidence-based [2]. Obviously you'll also realize because of the course you want to pickup aerobic exercise. David Burns is my favorite psychologist (I read Intimate Connections from him, his claim to fame is Feeling Good). He has an answer to your question, which is Ten Days to Self Esteem [3]. Though, when I read the reviews you might just want to get one of his other books.…
……培养我一直想拥有的技能。最后再简单提一句：每当我被负面想法困住时，参考 David Burns 的《Feeling Good》进行 CBT 自我治疗，效果很好。Burns 的《Intimate Connections》也在感情建议上帮了我，这有助于享受当下。
…developing skills I always wanted to have. Last quick note: I got a lot of mileage from referring to "Feeling Good" by David Burns for self-treatment with CBT whenever I felt trapped by negative thoughts. "Intimate Connections" also by Burns helped me for relationship advice, which helps with enjoying the present.
……伯恩斯那本书的推荐。伯恩斯在 80 年代写过一本关于如何结识新朋友的书。那是我读过的教人怎么认识女孩子最好的一本书。没有任何花招套路，全都是管用的建议。http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
…the Burns book recommendation. Burns wrote a book in the 80s about how to meet people. It was the best book I ever read on how to meet girls. No gimmicks, just advice that works. http://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Connections-David-D-Burns/dp/...
我读过戴维·伯恩斯（《感觉良好》的作者）写的《亲密关系》（Intimate Connections），虽然读的时候我已经走出了自卑期，但我心里还是想：“要是我早点拿到这本书，就能少走两年弯路了。”
I read Intimate Connections from David Burns (author of Feeling Good) and while it was after my low self-esteem period, I thought to myself "if only I had this book, it'd have taken 2 years less."