如果有人想更深入地理解这种现象,我能推荐的最好的参考书莫过于罗里·米勒(Rory Miller)的《暴力沉思录》(Meditations on Violence)[1]——特别是他所谓的“群体猴子戏”(group monkey dance)[2]。通俗的解释是:群体攻击的目标不再被当成人看,仅仅是一个纯粹的靶子。群体成员表现出……
If people want to understand this phenomenon better, there is no better reference I could recommend than Rory Miller's Meditations on Violence[1] - specifically what he calls the "group monkey dance"[2]. The simplified explanation is this: the target of the attack by the group is no longer a person, but merely a target. Group members demonstrate…
I very strongly recommend the book Meditations on Violence by Rory Miller. One thing he mentions is that his police department tried BJJ and found things like, in BJJ you want to pin your opponent on his back because it looks good for the MMA crowd, but in police…
…merely because of hunger, all of human history would have gone differently. I am not sure Maslow is saying what you think he is saying, since after all he grew up in Brooklyn. :-) I would suggest reading Meditations on Violence, which is a beautifully flawed book, including a great section outlining a theory of violence, and what precipitates different types of violent behavior. http://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Violence-Comparison-Martia...
Meditations on Violence by Rory Miller. It's written by someone who lives violence on an everyday basis, and his insights are amazing. Particularly for people who rarely experience violence, but when they do it will be catastrophic.
…you assume you have something to gain, always consider the other person might have little to lose and ( my opinion) never display aggression you are not willing to back up. Sources: 1. Rory Miller: ”Meditations on Violence” 2. Life experiences, that match 1’s observations
For martial arts practitioners (or just those interested in the subject or self defence etc), Rory Miller uses the OODA loop for framing some of his advice in his Meditations on Violence: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3396377-meditations-on-v...
如果有人想更深入地理解这种现象,我能推荐的最好的参考书莫过于罗里·米勒(Rory Miller)的《暴力沉思录》(Meditations on Violence)[1]——特别是他所谓的“群体猴子戏”(group monkey dance)[2]。通俗的解释是:群体攻击的目标不再被当成人看,仅仅是一个纯粹的靶子。群体成员表现出……
If people want to understand this phenomenon better, there is no better reference I could recommend than Rory Miller's Meditations on Violence[1] - specifically what he calls the "group monkey dance"[2]. The simplified explanation is this: the target of the attack by the group is no longer a person, but merely a target. Group members demonstrate…
我非常强烈推荐罗里·米勒的书《暴力沉思录》。他提到的一点是,他们警察局曾尝试过巴西柔术(BJJ),结果发现,比如在巴西柔术里你想把对手压在身下背部贴地,因为在 MMA 观众看来很漂亮,但在警务实战中……
I very strongly recommend the book Meditations on Violence by Rory Miller. One thing he mentions is that his police department tried BJJ and found things like, in BJJ you want to pin your opponent on his back because it looks good for the MMA crowd, but in police…
……如果仅仅因为饥饿,整个人类历史都会完全不同。我不确定马斯洛说的意思是不是你想的那样,毕竟他是在布鲁克林长大的。:-) 我建议读读《暴力沉思录》,这是一本有着精彩缺憾的书,其中有很棒的一节概述了暴力理论,以及诱发不同类型暴力行为的诱因。http://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Violence-Comparison-Martia...
…merely because of hunger, all of human history would have gone differently. I am not sure Maslow is saying what you think he is saying, since after all he grew up in Brooklyn. :-) I would suggest reading Meditations on Violence, which is a beautifully flawed book, including a great section outlining a theory of violence, and what precipitates different types of violent behavior. http://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Violence-Comparison-Martia...
罗里·米勒的《暴力沉思录》。这本书的作者每天都与暴力为伴,他的见解极其深刻。特别是对于那些平时很少经历暴力、但一旦遭遇就会是毁灭性打击的人来说,非常值得一读。
Meditations on Violence by Rory Miller. It's written by someone who lives violence on an everyday basis, and his insights are amazing. Particularly for people who rarely experience violence, but when they do it will be catastrophic.
……当你以为自己能从中捞到好处时,永远要考虑到对方可能光脚不怕穿鞋的,而且(依我之见)绝对不要展现出你没能力收场的攻击性。出处:1. 罗里·米勒:《暴力沉思录》 2. 与该书观点吻合的生活亲身经历
…you assume you have something to gain, always consider the other person might have little to lose and ( my opinion) never display aggression you are not willing to back up. Sources: 1. Rory Miller: ”Meditations on Violence” 2. Life experiences, that match 1’s observations
对于习武之人(或者只是对格斗、防身术等感兴趣的人),罗里·米勒在《暴力沉思录》中用 OODA loop(观察-调整-决策-行动循环)来构建他的一些建议:https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3396377-meditations-on-v...
For martial arts practitioners (or just those interested in the subject or self defence etc), Rory Miller uses the OODA loop for framing some of his advice in his Meditations on Violence: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3396377-meditations-on-v...