被辜负的美国男人
Stiffed
Susan Faludi · 初版 1999 年
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“在Stiffed一书中，Susan Faludi将她的报道与分析才能转向男性问题，并提出了极具革命性的诊断。男性面临的困境并非生理机制的产物，也不是女权主义和平权行动等虚构敌人的产物，而是一场现代社会悲剧。通过倾听男性亲口讲述的故事，以他们自己的视角看待问题，Faludi揭示了一段尘封的历史——美国曾向婴儿潮一代的男性许下一套光鲜诱人的承诺……随后却将它们践踏殆尽的隐秘过往。”——书封。“是什么阻碍了男性发起反抗
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这方面的另一个好资源是 Susan Faludi 写的《Stiffed》（https://susanfaludi.com/stiffed.html）。同样，她一开始是在问“为什么男人们要抵制女权运动？”，这一发问让她对整个处境产生了非常深刻的洞察……
Another good resource for this would be Stiffed by Susan Faludi ( https://susanfaludi.com/stiffed.html ) . Similarly, she started off saying "why are guys resisting the women's movement?" and that lead her to some great insights about the situation…
……而且同样真实。一切是如何建立在人类的罪恶之上的。如果我们全都是道德圣人，经济就会崩溃，诸如此类。他对这个论点进行了详尽的阐述，你很难反驳他。Susan Faludi 的《STIFFED》。我从中对现代工作、生活、社会以及“作为男人”有了极深的理解。必读书目。又及：还有 JK Galbraith 和 C Wright Mills 的所有著作。祝好运！
…and just as true. How everything depends on the sins of humanity. If we were all virtuous, economies would fall apart etc. Goes in detail into this argument and he's hard to argue with. Susan Faludi's STIFFED. I learnt so much about modern work, life, society, and being a man from this. A must read. p.s. and everything by JK Galbraith and C Wright Mills. Good luck!
……媒体（电影、广告等）中展现的、通过传统成功标准之外的途径成为有价值社会成员的男性还不够多。想要进一步阅读的话，我推荐 Faludi 的《Stiffed》和 hooks 的《The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love》。我一直在找一本由男性写男性的好书，但还没找到一本能把最基本的教训融入进去的……
…enough men in media (movies, advertising, etc.) portrayed as valuable members of society through avenues other than what the traditional measures of success dictate. For further reading, I recommend "Stiffed" by Faludi and "The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love" by hooks. I've been looking for a good book about men written by men, but I have not yet found one that incorporates the most basic lessons…
……带我走近了中国古代作家、诗人和中式生活方式。Hofstadter 的《集异璧》（Gödel, Escher, Bach）——我 14 岁读的，当时我很喜欢音乐、艺术和编程，这本书彻底震撼了我。Susan Faludi 的《STIFFED》——男性、工作、职位、男子气概、20 世纪。Walter Lippmann 的《公众舆论》（Public Opinion）——媒体、战争、宣传、民主。Noam Chomsky 的政治类书籍。E.F. Schumacher 的《小的是美好的》（Small is Beautiful）——世界、发展……
…me to ancient Chinese writers, poets and the Chinese way of life. Hofstadter, Gödel, Escher, Bach - read it when I was 14, and I was into music, art and programming, so it blew my mind. Susan Faludi, STIFFED - men, work, jobs, masculinity, 20th C Walter Lippmann, Public Opinion - media, war, propaganda, democracy Noam Chomsky's political books E.F. Schumacher, Small is Beautiful - the world, development,…
……Austin Kleon 的书、《Zen and the Art of Making a Living》、Tristine Rainer 的《The New Diary》、Ben Zander 的《The Art of Possibility》、Gracian 的《The Art of Wordly Wisdom》。蒙田。普鲁塔克。爱默生。Susan Faludi 的《Stiffed》可能比这里面的任何一本都能更好地帮你理解你自己、你的世界、你的工作和你的生活。祝好运！爱自己是终身浪漫的开始。——王尔德
…Austin Kleon books, Zen and the Art of Making a Living, Tristine Rainer The New Diary, Ben Zander The Art of Possibility, Gracian's The Art of Wordly Wisdom. Montaigne. Plutarch. Emerson. Susan Faludi's Stiffed may help you understand yourself, your world, your work, your life better than any of these. Good luck! To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. – Oscar Wilde
这个问题让我想起了 Susan Faludi 写的一本好书《STIFFED: The Betrayal of the American Man》。它是关于工作、关于什么是男人、以及这些东西是如何变化且已经发生改变的，比如在 20 世纪下半叶。这是最具启发性的……之一
This question reminds me of the excellent book STIFFED: The Betrayal of the American Man by Susan Faludi. It's about work, what it is to be a man, how these things are changing and have changed, say in the 2nd half of 20th C. One of the most enlightening…