随他们去吧理论
The Let Them Theory
Mel Robbins · 初版 2024 年
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如果幸福、成功和爱的秘诀就像两个字那样简单呢？如果你曾感到迷茫、不堪重负，或者对自己的处境深感挫败，问题并不在于你。问题在于你赋予了他人的掌控力。两个简单的字——随他们（Let Them）——将让你获得解脱。摆脱他人的看法、纷扰与评判。摆脱试图掌控周围一切人和事的疲惫循环。The Let Them Theory 将创造你所热爱生活的力量重新交回你的手中——而这本书将为你详细展示如何实现。在她最新的开创性著作 The Let Them Theo 中，
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……数百万行的数据集（以及像可审计性、版本控制、工作流、数据合并等许多其他需求），Excel 受限于自身种种短板根本搞不定。而在另一方面，还有所谓的“随他们去”理论（Let Them theory）[1]。[1] https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Million...
…multi-million-row datasets (along with many other requirements like auditability, version control, workflow, consolidation etc) that excel just can't handle with all its limitations. On the other hand, there's the 'Let Them' theory [1]. [1] https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Million...
Mel Robbins 广受欢迎的“随它去理论”（Let Them Theory）抓住了斯多葛主义（Stoicism）的某些精髓。https://www.melrobbins.com/book/the-let-them-theory/
Mel Robins' popular "Let Them Theory" captures some of the sentiment of Stoicism. https://www.melrobbins.com/book/the-let-them-theory/
核心字眼在“抓住了斯多葛主义的某些精髓”。她这本书其实完全可以浓缩成十来页。《If Books Could Kill》播客在 2025 年 4 月吐槽了她的书：“Peter 和 Michael 探讨了《The Let Them Theory》，一本教你如何通过毫无保留的摆烂来寻求幸福的成功学指南。”https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RupLQH4eBnUX4mo1zAAFz?si=h...
Key phrase "captures some of the sentiment of Stoicism". Her book could be cut down to about ten pages. If Books Could Kill reviewed her book in April 2025: "Peter and Michael discuss The Let Them Theory, a self-help guide to seeking bliss through unmitigated complacency." https://open.spotify.com/episode/2RupLQH4eBnUX4mo1zAAFz?si=h...