……4 年前创立我那家（如今已倒闭的）初创公司之前读的。《软件战争》（Softwar）——拉里·埃里森的故事，读起来引人入胜。《人间游戏》（Games People Play）——埃里克·伯恩的经典之作，心理学必读，篇幅短小但收获极大。《别为小事抓狂》（Don't Sweat the Small Stuff）——心理学必读，短小精悍，受益匪浅。《Haskell趣学指南》（Learn You a Haskell for Great Good!）——很快会重读一遍，好提升到下一个水平。
…starting my (now failed) startup 4 years ago. Softwar - Larry Ellison's story. Fascinating read. Games People Play - Classic by Eric Berne. Must read psychology. Short, and you will get so much out of it. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff - Must read psychology. Short, and you will get so much out of it. Learn You a Haskell for Great Good! - Will re-read soon to get to the next level.
论自助类书籍，我更倾向于《别为小事抓狂》（Don't Sweat the Small Stuff）。另外，我和人相处的原则是：能用无知或无能解释的事情，就不要归咎于恶意。也就是疑罪从无，凡事先给别人留点余地。……
I prefer "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" where self-help books are concerned. Also, my rule when dealing with others is don't mistake for malice that which can be explained by ignorance or incompetence. AKA give someone the benefit of the doubt.…
…emergency room to care for a loved one (or is perhaps a doctor). I try to feel sorry for them for being in a position where they are trying to hurry. I actually read to do this in some silly self-help book (Don't Sweat The Small Stuff, perhaps?) years ago. It's helped a lot.
…usual bravadoish and disconcertingly deranged manner of the self-help or ‘soft skills’ genre. Even though I'm still having trouble with the anecdotal nature of the argument, it's a lot better than e.g. “Don't Sweat The Small Stuff.”
……4 年前创立我那家（如今已倒闭的）初创公司之前读的。《软件战争》（Softwar）——拉里·埃里森的故事，读起来引人入胜。《人间游戏》（Games People Play）——埃里克·伯恩的经典之作，心理学必读，篇幅短小但收获极大。《别为小事抓狂》（Don't Sweat the Small Stuff）——心理学必读，短小精悍，受益匪浅。《Haskell趣学指南》（Learn You a Haskell for Great Good!）——很快会重读一遍，好提升到下一个水平。
…starting my (now failed) startup 4 years ago. Softwar - Larry Ellison's story. Fascinating read. Games People Play - Classic by Eric Berne. Must read psychology. Short, and you will get so much out of it. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff - Must read psychology. Short, and you will get so much out of it. Learn You a Haskell for Great Good! - Will re-read soon to get to the next level.
理查德·卡尔森写的《别为小事抓狂》（Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff）。非常让人沉下心来，也是一种很好的生活方式。要么就是汤姆·克兰西的《猎杀“红十月”号》（Hunt for Red October）
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff by Richard Carlson. Very centering and good way to lead life. That or Hunt for Red October by Tom Clancy
论自助类书籍，我更倾向于《别为小事抓狂》（Don't Sweat the Small Stuff）。另外，我和人相处的原则是：能用无知或无能解释的事情，就不要归咎于恶意。也就是疑罪从无，凡事先给别人留点余地。……
I prefer "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" where self-help books are concerned. Also, my rule when dealing with others is don't mistake for malice that which can be explained by ignorance or incompetence. AKA give someone the benefit of the doubt.…
……赶去急诊室照顾亲人（或者他们本身就是医生）。我会试着为他们不得不匆忙赶路的处境感到同情。我其实是多年前在一本挺俗的自助书（可能是《别为小事抓狂》吧？）里看到这种做法的。挺管用的。
…emergency room to care for a loved one (or is perhaps a doctor). I try to feel sorry for them for being in a position where they are trying to hurry. I actually read to do this in some silly self-help book (Don't Sweat The Small Stuff, perhaps?) years ago. It's helped a lot.
……那种自助或“软技能”类书籍惯有的虚张声势和令人不安的神经质腔调。尽管我还是很难接受那种全靠个人轶事来论证的方式，但它总比《别为小事抓狂》之类的书好多了。
…usual bravadoish and disconcertingly deranged manner of the self-help or ‘soft skills’ genre. Even though I'm still having trouble with the anecdotal nature of the argument, it's a lot better than e.g. “Don't Sweat The Small Stuff.”