如何了解一个人
How to Know a Person
David Brooks · 初版 2023 年
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正如《纽约时报》畅销书榜首作者 David Brooks 所指出的：“有一项技能是任何健全的人、家庭、学校、社区组织或社会的核心基石：那就是深刻洞察他人并让他们感到被看见的能力——准确地了解另一个人，让他们感到被重视、被倾听、被理解。”然而，我们人类在这方面做得很差。我们身边到处都是感到自己隐形、未被看见、被误解的人。在 How to Know a Person 中，Brooks 致力于帮助我们做得更好，提出了对我们所有人而言都至关重要的问题：如果你想了解一个人，你需要付出怎样的关
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大卫·布鲁克斯的《如何认识一个人》（How to Know A Person）我怎么推荐都不为过。这是一位内向极客同仁专门写给我们这些内向宅男/极客（introverted nerds）的书。堪称一本教你如何消除心防、打破社交卡点的操作指南。不过概括来说，核心秘诀就是学会倾听他人……
I can't recommend "How to Know A Person" by David Brooks enough. It's for us introverted nerds, by a fellow introverted nerd. A manual on how to become unblocked. For a broad overview, though, the secret sauce is to learn to listen to people…
赫什·威尔逊（Hersch Wilson）的《Firefighter Zen》、马库斯·白金汉（Marcus Buckingham）的《Nine lies about work》、戴维·布鲁克斯（David Brooks）的《How to know a person》
Firefighter Zen by Hersch Wilson Nine lies about work by Marcus Buckingham How to know a person by David Brooks
我超喜欢《如何认识一个人：深度看懂他人与被看见的艺术》（How to know a person - The art of seeing others deeply and being deeply seen，大卫·布鲁克斯，2023）这本书。我发现看待这个问题有非常有趣的视角。出自一位让人与人建立连接的专业人士之手。包括诸如……这类问题。
I loved the book "How to know a person - The art of seeing others deeply and being deeply seen, David Brooks, 2023". I found truly interesting ways to look at the problem. By a professional of getting people to connect. Including issues such…
……别人只是想找个副驾驶，我却以为自己是空中交通管制员。他们想要的是一个能结伴同行的人，而不是一个只会在地面上一边索要他们的信息、一边评头论足的人。读了《如何认识一个人》（How to Know A Person）对我启发很大。
…thought I was air traffic control when others were looking for a copilot. Somebody along for the ride with them, not just requesting information about them and offering commentary from the ground. Reading _How to Know a Person_ helped me a lot.