…perfect example of this is trying to make your partner feel loved. if you tell your partner you love them but that doesnt make them feel loved, you are miscommunicating. i am regurgitating the words of "The 5 Love Languages", by Gary Chapman. it is a short, cheap, book that will change your life and upend your cosmos : ) https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts-eboo... no affiliation, except that i bought…
…Emperor of all Maladies - Siddhartha Mukherjee * The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho * Getting Things Done - David Allen * The Worthing Saga - Orson Scott Card * The 4-Hour Work Week - Timothy Ferriss * The 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman * The Total Money Makeover - Dave Ramsey
I wish there was a simple recipe. But the principle is to have each focus on the other person's good qualities. How do actually do it will vary widely from couple to couple. The book The 5 Love Languages may help. It was one of many that helped me.
…一个绝佳的例子就是努力让你的另一半感受到爱。如果你对伴侣说你爱他们，但对方却感受不到被爱，那你们的沟通就出了问题。我这里是在复述加里·查普曼《爱的五种语言》里的话。这是一本篇幅不长、价格便宜的书，但它会改变你的生活，彻底颠覆你的宇宙 : ) https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts-eboo... 没有任何利益相关，纯粹是我买了…
…perfect example of this is trying to make your partner feel loved. if you tell your partner you love them but that doesnt make them feel loved, you are miscommunicating. i am regurgitating the words of "The 5 Love Languages", by Gary Chapman. it is a short, cheap, book that will change your life and upend your cosmos : ) https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts-eboo... no affiliation, except that i bought…
…《众病之王》- 悉达多·穆克吉 * 《牧羊少年奇幻之旅》- 保罗·柯艾略 * 《搞定》（Getting Things Done）- 戴维·艾伦 * 《沃辛传奇》- 奥森·斯科特·卡德 * 《每周工作4小时》- 蒂莫西·费里斯 * 《爱的五种语言》- 加里·查普曼 * 《完全金钱改造》- 戴夫·拉姆齐
…Emperor of all Maladies - Siddhartha Mukherjee * The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho * Getting Things Done - David Allen * The Worthing Saga - Orson Scott Card * The 4-Hour Work Week - Timothy Ferriss * The 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman * The Total Money Makeover - Dave Ramsey
我也希望有个简单的万能配方。但核心原则就是双方都要多看对方身上的优点。具体怎么落实，每对伴侣之间差异会非常大。《爱的五种语言》这本书或许有帮助，它是帮助过我的众多书籍之一。
I wish there was a simple recipe. But the principle is to have each focus on the other person's good qualities. How do actually do it will vary widely from couple to couple. The book The 5 Love Languages may help. It was one of many that helped me.