……可以说是相当巨大的范式转变，并且需要付出大量类似于佛教/瑜伽等东方修行的功夫。蒂莫西·雷·米勒（Timothy Ray Miller）关于这个话题写过一本极好的书，叫《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）：http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0380726823 编辑补充：我应该说明一下，这些方法并不一定冲突。你可以努力去做你热爱的事，或者如果由于某种原因……
…something of a massive paradigm shift and requires plenty of work that resembles various eastern practices such as Buddhism/Yoga. There's an excellent book on the subject by Timothy Ray Miller called "How to Want What You Have:" http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0380726823 edited to add: I should note that these approaches aren't neccessarily in conflict. You can work to do what you love, or if for whatever…
关于精神支持，我想推荐《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 ，当面对自己看似迫在眉睫的死亡时，它教会了我活在当下。[我39岁，有两个分别为5岁和7岁的女儿，而且……
In re: spiritual support, may I recommend "How to Want What You Have" http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 which taught me to live in the moment when I was faced with my own seeming impending demise. [I'm 39, have daughters aged 5 and 7, and had…
有一本书可能很好地捕捉并阐述了上述内容（尤其是关于谦逊）：蒂莫西·米勒的《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）：http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 典型的“西方”幸福方式是：“我拥有 X 但我想要 Y，所以为了快乐我必须得到 Y。”这种……
A book that may capture and elaborate on the above (esp. re: modesty) is "How to Want What You Have" by Timothy Miller: http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 The typical "western" approach to happiness is: "I have X but I want Y, therefore, to be happy I need to achieve Y." This…
……可以说是相当巨大的范式转变，并且需要付出大量类似于佛教/瑜伽等东方修行的功夫。蒂莫西·雷·米勒（Timothy Ray Miller）关于这个话题写过一本极好的书，叫《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）：http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0380726823 编辑补充：我应该说明一下，这些方法并不一定冲突。你可以努力去做你热爱的事，或者如果由于某种原因……
…something of a massive paradigm shift and requires plenty of work that resembles various eastern practices such as Buddhism/Yoga. There's an excellent book on the subject by Timothy Ray Miller called "How to Want What You Have:" http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0380726823 edited to add: I should note that these approaches aren't neccessarily in conflict. You can work to do what you love, or if for whatever…
关于精神支持，我想推荐《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 ，当面对自己看似迫在眉睫的死亡时，它教会了我活在当下。[我39岁，有两个分别为5岁和7岁的女儿，而且……
In re: spiritual support, may I recommend "How to Want What You Have" http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 which taught me to live in the moment when I was faced with my own seeming impending demise. [I'm 39, have daughters aged 5 and 7, and had…
有一本书可能很好地捕捉并阐述了上述内容（尤其是关于谦逊）：蒂莫西·米勒的《如何想要你所拥有的》（How to Want What You Have）：http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 典型的“西方”幸福方式是：“我拥有 X 但我想要 Y，所以为了快乐我必须得到 Y。”这种……
A book that may capture and elaborate on the above (esp. re: modesty) is "How to Want What You Have" by Timothy Miller: http://www.amazon.com/How-Want-What-You-Have/dp/0805033173 The typical "western" approach to happiness is: "I have X but I want Y, therefore, to be happy I need to achieve Y." This…