披着羊皮的人
In sheep's clothing
George K. Simon · 初版 1996 年
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如果你发现自己无缘无故成为受害者，那你很可能是各类操纵者最喜欢针对的人群。从善于抓人软肋的个体到不断退化的社会，George K. Simon恰如其分地揭示了操纵者的诸多类型与层级，以及你如何摆脱他们的掌控，甚至助力世界变得更美好。《In Sheep's Clothing》还深入探讨了自尊与自爱之间的重要区别——并在意味深长的结语中揭示了当今社会鼓励不良攻击性行为的种种方式。
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……表现出来的——我当然不是在怪你。但你必须明白，有些客户会故意钻这个空子——去读读关于操纵型人格以及如何应对他们的书吧。George Simon 写的《披着羊皮》（In Sheep's Clothing）就很不错。然后我建议做一次深刻的自我反省/心理剖析，找出你的盲点在哪里以及为什么会这样——对我来说这都是非常宝贵的一课，我想它迟早也会发生……
…exhibited - I am certainly not faulting you for that. But you have to realize some clients will consciously take advantage of that - read up on manipulative people and how to deal with them. A good book is "In Sheep's Clothing" by George Simon. Then I suggest some deep soul searching / psychoanalysis to figure out what your blinds spots were and why - it was all a valuable lesson for me and I suppose it would have happened…
……识别出某人什么时候开始撒谎。自恋者挺爱说谎的，但他们也不是病态强迫性说谎狂。有时你得花上好几年才能看出来。至于如何应对棘手局面，《披着羊皮》（In Sheep's Clothing）这本书比大部分书都更好读，而且深入探讨了在职场中如何应对 ASPD 和 NPD：https://www.amazon.com/Sheeps-Clothing-Understanding-Dealing...
…identify when someone starts lying. Narcissists lie quite a bit, but they're not compulsive liars either. Sometimes it will take years to catch on. For how to handle difficult situations, the book In Sheep's Clothing is a quicker read that most books and dives into how to respond to ASPDs and NPDs in the work place: https://www.amazon.com/Sheeps-Clothing-Understanding-Dealing...