> 凭常识行事 去读 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》。强烈推荐给任何想更多了解如何保护自己的人。tldr：相信你的直觉。它们是经过千锤百炼进化出来的。http://tgace.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/the-gift-of-fear/…
> Use common sense Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Highly recommend it for anyone who wants to know more about how to protect yourself. tldr: Trust your instincts. They have been honed by many, many iterations. http://tgace.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/the-gift-of-fear/…
一位安全专业人士曾经向我推荐过 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》[1]，说里面有值得时刻牢记的绝佳干货。de Becker 的一个洞见正是你在这里所说的——大多数潜在袭击者的动机都源于某种人际关系，……
A security professional once recommended Gavin de Becker's "The Gift of Fear" [1] to me as a source of excellent information to always have in mind. One of de Becker's insight is exactly what you say here -- that most potential attackers are motivated by a personal connection,…
这是我推荐的：- Robert Greene 的《The 48 Laws of Power》 - Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》 - Patrick van Horne 和 Jason Riley 的《Left of Bang》 - Robert Cialdini 的《Influence》以及续作《Pre-suasion》 - Ryan Holiday 的《Courage is Calling》（对，它出版于……
Here are mine: - "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene - "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker - "Left of Bang" by Patrick van Horne and Jason Riley - "Influence" and its follow-up "Pre-suasion" by Robert Cialdini - "Courage is Calling" by Ryan Holiday (yes it was published…
你想到的那个女演员大概是 Rebecca Schaeffer：http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_Schaeffer。我是在 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》里读到关于她的事的，顺便说一句，那是一本讲这类事情相当不错的书。（de Becker 显然就是那种好莱坞明星收到死亡威胁时会找的人——保护名人就是他公司的业务。……
The actress you're thinking of is probably Rebecca Schaeffer: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_Schaeffer I read about her in Gavin de Becker's The Gift of Fear, which incidentally is a pretty good book about such things. (de Becker is apparently the guy you call if you're a Hollywood star who gets a death threat -- protecting famous people is his company's business.…
《The Gift of Fear》（一本很有意思的书，既是耸人听闻的真实犯罪畅销书，又是领域专家的真知灼见）里众多有趣的要点之一：当你需要帮助时，主动在人群中走向某个人并开口求助。不要等别人主动走过来……
One of the many interesting tidbits in The Gift of Fear (an interesting book, simultaneously a sensational true-crime bestseller and the words of a domain expert): When you need help, approach someone in a crowd and ask. Don't wait for someone to approach…
……http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1276882 学会提问：http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html 读读 Malcolm Gladwell 的《Blink》，你会发现自己的大部分思考根本用不着费劲就自动完成了。读读 Gavin DeBecker 的《The Gift of Fear》，我们对世界的直觉情绪反应往往是惊人准确的洞见之源。培养让大脑彻底安静、不留杂念闲聊的能力。创造力就是……
…http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1276882 Start asking smart questions: http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html Read "Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell, discover that most of your thinking goes on without you trying at all. Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin DeBecker, our emotional responses to our world can be sources of surprisingly accurate insight. Develop the ability to create complete silence in your mind, no chit-chatter. Creativity is…
> 凭常识行事 去读 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》。强烈推荐给任何想更多了解如何保护自己的人。tldr：相信你的直觉。它们是经过千锤百炼进化出来的。http://tgace.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/the-gift-of-fear/…
> Use common sense Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Highly recommend it for anyone who wants to know more about how to protect yourself. tldr: Trust your instincts. They have been honed by many, many iterations. http://tgace.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/the-gift-of-fear/…
一位安全专业人士曾经向我推荐过 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》[1]，说里面有值得时刻牢记的绝佳干货。de Becker 的一个洞见正是你在这里所说的——大多数潜在袭击者的动机都源于某种人际关系，……
A security professional once recommended Gavin de Becker's "The Gift of Fear" [1] to me as a source of excellent information to always have in mind. One of de Becker's insight is exactly what you say here -- that most potential attackers are motivated by a personal connection,…
这是我推荐的：- Robert Greene 的《The 48 Laws of Power》 - Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》 - Patrick van Horne 和 Jason Riley 的《Left of Bang》 - Robert Cialdini 的《Influence》以及续作《Pre-suasion》 - Ryan Holiday 的《Courage is Calling》（对，它出版于……
Here are mine: - "The 48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene - "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker - "Left of Bang" by Patrick van Horne and Jason Riley - "Influence" and its follow-up "Pre-suasion" by Robert Cialdini - "Courage is Calling" by Ryan Holiday (yes it was published…
你想到的那个女演员大概是 Rebecca Schaeffer：http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_Schaeffer。我是在 Gavin de Becker 的《The Gift of Fear》里读到关于她的事的，顺便说一句，那是一本讲这类事情相当不错的书。（de Becker 显然就是那种好莱坞明星收到死亡威胁时会找的人——保护名人就是他公司的业务。……
The actress you're thinking of is probably Rebecca Schaeffer: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_Schaeffer I read about her in Gavin de Becker's The Gift of Fear, which incidentally is a pretty good book about such things. (de Becker is apparently the guy you call if you're a Hollywood star who gets a death threat -- protecting famous people is his company's business.…
《The Gift of Fear》（一本很有意思的书，既是耸人听闻的真实犯罪畅销书，又是领域专家的真知灼见）里众多有趣的要点之一：当你需要帮助时，主动在人群中走向某个人并开口求助。不要等别人主动走过来……
One of the many interesting tidbits in The Gift of Fear (an interesting book, simultaneously a sensational true-crime bestseller and the words of a domain expert): When you need help, approach someone in a crowd and ask. Don't wait for someone to approach…
……http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1276882 学会提问：http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html 读读 Malcolm Gladwell 的《Blink》，你会发现自己的大部分思考根本用不着费劲就自动完成了。读读 Gavin DeBecker 的《The Gift of Fear》，我们对世界的直觉情绪反应往往是惊人准确的洞见之源。培养让大脑彻底安静、不留杂念闲聊的能力。创造力就是……
…http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1276882 Start asking smart questions: http://catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html Read "Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell, discover that most of your thinking goes on without you trying at all. Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin DeBecker, our emotional responses to our world can be sources of surprisingly accurate insight. Develop the ability to create complete silence in your mind, no chit-chatter. Creativity is…