教养的震撼
Nurtureshock
Po Bronson、Ashley Merryman · 初版 2009 年
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为什么值得读
- 梳理儿童认知发展领域的最新前沿研究
- 深入探讨睡眠、种族及赞赏方式等主题
- 揭示追求完美父母的努力为何可能适得其反
在现代、投入且充满关怀的父母环绕的世界中，为何仍有那么多孩子表现出攻击性与残酷？智力隐藏在人脑的什么位置，这为何至关重要？为什么在种族融合度更高的学校里，跨种族友谊反而减少了？如果 98% 的孩子都认为撒谎在道德上是错误的，那为何又有 98% 的孩子会撒谎？帮助婴儿学习语言的最关键因素是什么？NurtureShock 是获奖科学记者 Po Bronson 与 Ashley Merryman 开创性的合作之作。他们指出，在对待孩子的问题上，我们一直误将良好意图当作了良策
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我推荐《小天才与大笨蛋》（NurtureShock，https://www.amazon.com/NurtureShock-New-Thinking-About-Child...）。里面关于睡眠、种族、表扬的章节写得极好，而最有趣的莫过于我们努力成为完美父母的种种做法，是如何……
I’d recommend the book NurtureShock (https://www.amazon.com/NurtureShock-New-Thinking-About-Child...) It has great chapters on sleep, race, praise and most interesting of all, how the ways in which our efforts to become perfect parents…
你应该看看研究——电视对语言发展的影响已有确凿证据。《Nurtureshock》一书给出了很好的概述，但如果你想直接看研究论文，似乎有很多这样的论文：http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/128/5/1040.abs... 问题……
You should take a look at the research - there is established evidence for the impact of television on language development. The book NurtureShock gives a nice overview, but if you want to go directly to the research papers it looks like there are plenty of papers like this: http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/128/5/1040.abs... The problem…
……显著降低他们未来进入 STEM 领域的可能性。然而这不仅仅是关于女孩，对男孩也有负面影响。如果你只读一本关于育儿的伟大著作，那就读《Nurtureshock》。我从中学到的一件事是孩子如何学会重视天性 vs 教养。当你对孩子说“干得好！你真聪明”时，你基本上是在说他们有天生的能力去做伟大的事情，……
…significantly decreases their future probability for enrollment in STEM. However it's just not about girls, it also impacts boys negatively as well. If you have to read one great book about raising kids, make it NurtureShock. One thing I learned from it was how kids learn to value nature vs nurture. When you tell your kid "great job! you are smart" you are basically saying they have natural capability to do great things,…
同意。这个领域有一些硬证据和大量间接研究。不过我在儿童早期发展方面读过的最好的书之一必须是《Nurtureshock》。最长的一章是后面的参考文献。
Agreed. This field is has a little hard evidence and a lot of circumstantial study. One of the best things I've read on early child development though has to be NurtureShock. The longest chapter is the reference in the back.
几个月前我读了波·布朗森和阿什利·梅里曼的佳作《NurtureShock》：http://www.nurtureshock.com/ 。如果你有孩子或者负责照料儿童，我强烈推荐它，这是对当前认知发展研究极其出色的一篇综述概览。
A few months ago I read Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman's excellent book Nurtureshock: http://www.nurtureshock.com/ If you have or are responsible for children, I highly recommend it as an excellent overview of current research into cognitive development.
顺便说一句，如果你有小孩，我强烈建议读读布朗森和梅里曼的《NurtureShock》，能让你很好地纵览当前关于认知发展的研究。
By the way, if you have children I highly recommend reading Bronson and Merryman's book NurtureShock to get a good overview of the current research into cognitive development.