改变的意志
The will to change
bell hooks、Javier Saez、Marta Pera Cucurell · 初版 2004 年
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bell hooks 在本书中对男性气概的父权制刻板印象及其对我们所有人的影响进行了中肯的剖析。尤其是她关于另类男性气概形象的深思熟虑且具建设性的构想，引人深思并开辟了全新的视角。
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The will to change
bell hooks、Javier Saez、Marta Pera Cucurell · 初版 2004 年
bell hooks 在本书中对男性气概的父权制刻板印象及其对我们所有人的影响进行了中肯的剖析。尤其是她关于另类男性气概形象的深思熟虑且具建设性的构想，引人深思并开辟了全新的视角。
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……父母、老师、同龄人、宗教权威、老板还有广告，随口就能想到这些。不知道你会把它们的影响力怎么排个序？供参考，不妨看看 bell hooks 的《改变的意愿》（The Will to Change）[0]；作为女性主义文本，它对男性是非常富有同理心的。我觉得你一上手就会发现很多能引起共鸣的地方。0. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17601.The_Will_to_Change
…Parents, teachers, peers, religious authorities, bosses, and advertising come to mind. I wonder where you'd rank the influence of all these? For reference, don't hesitate to look into bell hooks "The Will to Change;"[0] as feminist texts go, it's extremely sympathetic to men. I think you'll find a lot to agree with, right off the bat. 0. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17601.The_Will_to_Change
……了。”不妨多读读关于“恶”的普遍性的书。我可以给你指个路：0. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/224552.Why_Does_He_Do_Th... 1. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17601.The_Will_to_Change
…it." Don't hesitate to read up on the ubiquity of "evil". I can get you started: 0. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/224552.Why_Does_He_Do_Th... 1. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17601.The_Will_to_Change
……你竟然这么急不可耐地想让孩子们与自己的情感割裂。说真的，这种想法简直太糟糕了。你真该好好批判性反思一下。你也该考虑读读 bell hooks 的《改变的意愿》（The Will to Change），书里深入剖析了像你我这样的男性是如何在情感上被阉割致残的——不是被溺爱，而是被致残。不管怎么说，要是你真的“被教会了批判性反思”，你早就……
…how quick you are to desire children's alienation from their feelings. Really, that's an atrocious desire. You should critically question that one. You should also consider reading bell hooks' "The Will to Change," which goes into great depth on the ways men like you and I are emotionally crippled--not coddled, crippled. At any rate, that's what you would do if you'd been "taught to critically question" your…
……农业，黑人劳工集中在服务业，两个群体都被剥夺了高薪、高科技行业的机会，而像我这样的白人男性却把这些视为理所当然。在她这部不可或缺的女性主义经典《改变的意愿》（The Will to Change）中，bell hooks 用了“帝国主义白人至上资本主义父权制”这个短语，来描述构成我们国家政治基石的这套环环相扣的政治体系。
…agriculture, black workers in service work, and both groups are deprived of the high-pay, high-tech opportunities that white men like myself take for granted. In her indispensable feminist text, "The Will to Change", bell hooks uses the phrase “imperialist white-supremacist capitalist patriarchy” to describe the interlocking political systems that are the foundation of our nation’s politics.
关于这个话题，我强烈推荐 Terry Real 的《我不想谈》（I Don’t Want To Talk About It）或者 bell hooks 的《改变的意愿》（The Will To Change，其中大量引用了前者）。我们对父权制通过情感忽视与冷漠给男孩和男人造成的伤害，探讨得实在太少了。
I highly recommend I Don’t Want To Talk About It by Terry Real or The Will To Change by bell hooks (which extensively cites the former) on this topic. We don’t talk enough about the harm patriarchy inflicts on boys and men through emotional neglect and detachment.
对于想在这个方向深入了解的人来说，Bell Hooks 的《改变的意愿》（The Will To Change）是一部极其震撼人心的力作。
Bell Hooks "The Will To Change" is as astounding body of work for folks who are interested in this further.