……去咖啡馆之类的地方办公，给彼此一点喘息的空间。当然这一个问题不能代表全部，但属于短期内可以改善的事情。我强烈推荐《获得你想要的爱》（Getting the Love You Want）这本书。补充：回过头重读这段，感觉语气比我本意要生硬。另外，如果你去问妻子到底怎么了，显然可能会引发一场火药味很浓的对话。《获得你想要的爱》里有一种叫做……的技巧
…give some breathing room by working in a coffee shop or something. Of course that one issue is not everything, but it is something that could be worked on in the short term. I highly recommend the book Getting the Love You Want. edit: Rereading this, it sounds more brusque than I intended. Also, if you do ask your wife what is wrong, that can obviously be a charged conversation. Getting the Love You Want has a technique called…
Yes, I learned about Imago dialogue through a book called "Getting the Love You Want" (which sounded gimmicky, but it was recommended by a therapist friend, and I've found it surprisingly practical, not just for intimate relationships but also just relationships with friends and coworkers).…
I was introduced to Imago therapy many years ago, back when I was still just dating the woman who is now my wife. I've recommended the book "Getting the Love You Want" to several people. I can tell you this much -- of all the things I've done in my life, and all the various types of pain I've suffered, the "active listening" part required of Imago is the very hardest…
……去咖啡馆之类的地方办公，给彼此一点喘息的空间。当然这一个问题不能代表全部，但属于短期内可以改善的事情。我强烈推荐《获得你想要的爱》（Getting the Love You Want）这本书。补充：回过头重读这段，感觉语气比我本意要生硬。另外，如果你去问妻子到底怎么了，显然可能会引发一场火药味很浓的对话。《获得你想要的爱》里有一种叫做……的技巧
…give some breathing room by working in a coffee shop or something. Of course that one issue is not everything, but it is something that could be worked on in the short term. I highly recommend the book Getting the Love You Want. edit: Rereading this, it sounds more brusque than I intended. Also, if you do ask your wife what is wrong, that can obviously be a charged conversation. Getting the Love You Want has a technique called…
哈维尔·亨德里克斯 - 《获得你想要的爱》（Getting The Love You Want） 莱文、赫勒 - 《依恋》（Attached）
Harville Hendrix - Getting The Love You Want Levine Heller - Attached
是的，我是通过一本叫《获得你想要的爱》的书了解到意象对话（Imago dialogue）的（听起来像是在搞噱头，但我一个做心理咨询师的朋友推荐了它，而且我发现它出奇地实用，不仅适用于亲密关系，也适用于朋友和同事之间）。……
Yes, I learned about Imago dialogue through a book called "Getting the Love You Want" (which sounded gimmicky, but it was recommended by a therapist friend, and I've found it surprisingly practical, not just for intimate relationships but also just relationships with friends and coworkers).…
很多年前，在我跟现在的妻子还只是在谈恋爱的时候，我就接触到了意象疗法（Imago therapy）。我给好几个人推荐过《获得你想要的爱》这本书。我可以这么跟你讲——在我一生做过的所有事里、承受过的各种痛苦中，意象疗法所要求的“积极倾听”部分绝对是最难熬的……
I was introduced to Imago therapy many years ago, back when I was still just dating the woman who is now my wife. I've recommended the book "Getting the Love You Want" to several people. I can tell you this much -- of all the things I've done in my life, and all the various types of pain I've suffered, the "active listening" part required of Imago is the very hardest…