……那些想读一些关于男性气质的书的人（为了了解自己或其他有阳刚气质的人）：戴维·戴达（David Deida）的《卓越男人的法则》（The Way of the Superior Man）；摩尔与吉列特（Moore & Gillette）的《国王·战士·魔术师·爱人》（King, Warrior, Magician, Lover）；赞·佩里昂（Zan Perrion）的《雪白少女》（The Alabaster Girl）。免责声明：我推荐的某些书并不是基于太多科学研究的，或者会涉足更抽象的思考方式并从其他来源（例如东方哲学）汲取灵感。……
…those looking into reading into masculinity (to understand yourself or other masculine people: David Deida - The Way of the Superior Man Moore & Gillette - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Zan Perrion- The Alabaster Girl Disclaimer: Some of these books I recommend are not going to be based on much research and science, or delve into more abstract forms of thought and draw inspiration from other sources (e.g. Eastern).…
……出发吧！想进一步阅读的话，可以看看：马克·曼森（Mark Manson）的《模特》（Models）；罗伯特·格洛弗（Robert Glover）的《不再做个老好人》（No More Mr. Nice Guy）。另外，对于将心态转变为与潜在伴侣“默认保持积极”互动也有帮助的，我推荐赞·佩里昂的《雪白少女》。用词非常华丽，但读起来挺享受的，退一万步说也是一种值得参考的不错心境。
…go! For further reading, look at: Models - Mark Manson No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover What also helped change mindsets to positive-by-default interactions with potential partners, I recommend The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. Very flowery book, but an enjoyable read and at worst a decent mode of mind to consider.
the way of superior man by david deida - this is a traditional take between the masculine and feminine. the alabaster girl by zan perrion - this is an in depth exploration of social dynamics in relationships.
…women are forever in love with starving artists, musicians, dreamers, iconoclasts. They love these men because they, too, possess a certain, rare beauty. They, too, are set apart.» -- Zan Perrion, "The alabaster girl"
……那些想读一些关于男性气质的书的人（为了了解自己或其他有阳刚气质的人）：戴维·戴达（David Deida）的《卓越男人的法则》（The Way of the Superior Man）；摩尔与吉列特（Moore & Gillette）的《国王·战士·魔术师·爱人》（King, Warrior, Magician, Lover）；赞·佩里昂（Zan Perrion）的《雪白少女》（The Alabaster Girl）。免责声明：我推荐的某些书并不是基于太多科学研究的，或者会涉足更抽象的思考方式并从其他来源（例如东方哲学）汲取灵感。……
…those looking into reading into masculinity (to understand yourself or other masculine people: David Deida - The Way of the Superior Man Moore & Gillette - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Zan Perrion- The Alabaster Girl Disclaimer: Some of these books I recommend are not going to be based on much research and science, or delve into more abstract forms of thought and draw inspiration from other sources (e.g. Eastern).…
……出发吧！想进一步阅读的话，可以看看：马克·曼森（Mark Manson）的《模特》（Models）；罗伯特·格洛弗（Robert Glover）的《不再做个老好人》（No More Mr. Nice Guy）。另外，对于将心态转变为与潜在伴侣“默认保持积极”互动也有帮助的，我推荐赞·佩里昂的《雪白少女》。用词非常华丽，但读起来挺享受的，退一万步说也是一种值得参考的不错心境。
…go! For further reading, look at: Models - Mark Manson No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover What also helped change mindsets to positive-by-default interactions with potential partners, I recommend The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. Very flowery book, but an enjoyable read and at worst a decent mode of mind to consider.
戴维·戴达的《卓越男人的法则》——这是对男性气质与女性气质之间关系的一种传统解读。赞·佩里昂的《雪白少女》——这是对人际关系中社交动态的深度探讨。
the way of superior man by david deida - this is a traditional take between the masculine and feminine. the alabaster girl by zan perrion - this is an in depth exploration of social dynamics in relationships.
“……女人永远爱着穷困潦倒的艺术家、音乐家、梦想家和反叛者。她们爱这些男人，是因为他们身上同样拥有一种独特、稀有的美。他们同样是特立独行的。”——赞·佩里昂，《雪白少女》
…women are forever in love with starving artists, musicians, dreamers, iconoclasts. They love these men because they, too, possess a certain, rare beauty. They, too, are set apart.» -- Zan Perrion, "The alabaster girl"