……本意并非如此，但给人的感觉往往就是那样。而且这几乎总是出于私心；提建议的人想当英雄，而接受建议的人察觉到了这一点，最后反而觉得孤立无援。真心推荐 McKay 写的《Messages: The Communications Skills Book》这本书。
…intended as such, but that's often how it feels. It's also almost always self-serving; the advisor wants to be a hero, and the recipient picks up on this and ends up feeling alone. Really recommend the book Messages: The Communications Skills Book by McKay.
Matthew McKay、Martha Davis、Patrick Fanning 写的《Messages: The Communication Skills Book》。全是基础知识，没有任何有争议的观点。这本书帮了我很大忙。
Messages: The Communication Skills Book Di Matthew McKay, Martha Davis, Patrick Fanning Basics, without any controversial ideas. This book helped me a lot.
……《工作中的抗抑郁技巧：应对职场情绪问题》（Antidepressant Skills at Work: Dealing with mood problems in the workplace）。取自 http://www.comh.ca/antidepressant-skills/work/workbook/pages.... McKay, M., Davis, M., & Fanning, P. (2009). 《Messages: The Communication Skills Book》. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. # 几条核心要点 - 协商并管理自己的行为 - 每个人都在尽其所能 - 沟通是……
…Antidepressant Skills at Work: Dealing with mood problems in the workplace. Retrieved from http://www.comh.ca/antidepressant-skills/work/workbook/pages.... McKay, M., Davis, M., & Fanning, P. (2009). Messages: The Communication Skills Book. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. # Some High Level Take Home Messages - negotiate your own behavior - everyone is doing the best they can - communication is…
Matthew McKay 写的《Messages》。Carol Dweck 写的《Mindset》。
"Messages" by Matthew McKay. "Mindset" by Carol Dweck.
……本意并非如此，但给人的感觉往往就是那样。而且这几乎总是出于私心；提建议的人想当英雄，而接受建议的人察觉到了这一点，最后反而觉得孤立无援。真心推荐 McKay 写的《Messages: The Communications Skills Book》这本书。
…intended as such, but that's often how it feels. It's also almost always self-serving; the advisor wants to be a hero, and the recipient picks up on this and ends up feeling alone. Really recommend the book Messages: The Communications Skills Book by McKay.
Matthew McKay、Martha Davis、Patrick Fanning 写的《Messages: The Communication Skills Book》。全是基础知识，没有任何有争议的观点。这本书帮了我很大忙。
Messages: The Communication Skills Book Di Matthew McKay, Martha Davis, Patrick Fanning Basics, without any controversial ideas. This book helped me a lot.
……《工作中的抗抑郁技巧：应对职场情绪问题》（Antidepressant Skills at Work: Dealing with mood problems in the workplace）。取自 http://www.comh.ca/antidepressant-skills/work/workbook/pages.... McKay, M., Davis, M., & Fanning, P. (2009). 《Messages: The Communication Skills Book》. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. # 几条核心要点 - 协商并管理自己的行为 - 每个人都在尽其所能 - 沟通是……
…Antidepressant Skills at Work: Dealing with mood problems in the workplace. Retrieved from http://www.comh.ca/antidepressant-skills/work/workbook/pages.... McKay, M., Davis, M., & Fanning, P. (2009). Messages: The Communication Skills Book. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. # Some High Level Take Home Messages - negotiate your own behavior - everyone is doing the best they can - communication is…