激情婚姻
Passionate marriage
David Morris Schnarch · 初版 1997 年
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“Schnarch 融合幽默与同理心，生动描绘了多对伴侣坦率直白的亲密接触过程以及扣人心弦的咨询场景，以此展示他们是如何找到远超以往所敢想象的个人、婚姻与性层面的圆满境界。”——书封。
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Passionate marriage
David Morris Schnarch · 初版 1997 年
“Schnarch 融合幽默与同理心，生动描绘了多对伴侣坦率直白的亲密接触过程以及扣人心弦的咨询场景，以此展示他们是如何找到远超以往所敢想象的个人、婚姻与性层面的圆满境界。”——书封。
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年轻时没人会告诉你的那些亲密关系动态。在情感层面等待着你的是什么？我向我儿子推荐了这些。埃里希·弗洛姆《爱的艺术》；戴维·施纳奇《激情婚姻：情感承诺关系中的性、爱与亲密》；还有在你结婚之前……换个新视角看看为什么……沃尔夫冈·格德克《性、伴侣与婚姻：从灵性……
Things nobody tells you about relationship dynamics when you are young. Whats a head of you emontionaly? I recommend these to my son. Erich Fromm The Art of Loving David schnarch Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love & Intimacy in emotionally committed relationships. And before you get married... Get some new perspective why ... Wolfgang gädecke, Sexuality, Partnership and Marriage : From a Spiritual…
……模式”，“害怕承诺”，如果这能引起你的共鸣，去看看斯蒂文·卡特和茱莉亚·索科尔合著的《他害怕，她害怕》（He's scared, She's scared）这类书，还有戴维·施纳奇写亲密关系的书（他的书《激情婚姻》不只讲婚姻，更多是在谈广泛意义上的性和亲密感之间的联系）。
…styles", "scared of commitment" and if this resonates with you have a look at books like "He's scared, She's scared" by Steven Carter and Julia Sokol and David Schnarch's books on intimacy (his book "Passionate Marriage" does not only deal with marriage but mostly with the connection between sex and intimacy in general).
……亲密感。搞清楚如何在亲密感上成长，你就用不着发愁只是去“容忍”另一个人了。我自己走的是一条更偏小众神秘主义的灵性之路，不过有一本广受好评的主流书叫《激情婚姻》，里面涉及到了一些人们用来建立长久美满关系的方法。
…intimacy. Figure out how to grow in intimacy and you don't have to worry about simply tolerating another human. I follow a more esoteric spiritual path, but there is a mainstream book that is well-regarded, "Passionate Marriage", that touches on some of the techniques folks have used to build successful enduring relationships.
……还没读链接里的文章，不过这个主题让我想起了一位叫戴维·施纳奇的心理学家做的一些工作，他的职业生涯都在研究这个课题，并写了几本相关的书。其中包括一本名为《激情婚姻》（Passionate Marriage）的书，定位是面向普通大众的自助读物；还有《构建性熔炉》（Constructing the Sexual Crucible），更偏向于面向治疗师和咨询师的专业技术手册。参见 http://passionatemarriage.com/ http://passionatemarriage.com/catalog/15……
…linked article yet, but the subject reminds me of some work done by a psychologist named David Schnarch, who has built a career and written several books on the subject. These include a book called _Passionate Marriage_, intended as self-help for a lay audience, and _Constructing the Sexual Crucible_, which is more of a technical handbook for therapists and counselors. See http://passionatemarriage.com/ http://passionatemarriage.com/catalog/15…