……《人性的弱点》（戴尔·卡耐基的经典之作）-《言外之意》（Gerard I. Nierenberg, Henry H. Calero）-《人间游戏》（Eric Berne）-《体态语言分析》（Joe Nevarro, Marvin Karlins）-《会话的艺术》（Alan Garner）。对于每天都需要和人打交道的人（也就是所有人）来说，这些书打下了极好的基础，尤其是在你提防那些能说会道、试图……
…Friends and Influence People (a classic by Dale Carnegie) - Meta-Talk (Gerard I. Nierenberg, Henry H. Calero) - Games People Play (Eric Berne) - What Every Body is Saying (Joe Nevarro, Marvin Karlins) - Conversationally Speaking (Alan Garner) These books provide a great foundation for anyone who needs to deal with people on a daily basis (ie. everyone), and are especially useful if you want to be aware of fast-talkers trying…
I've found "Conversationally Speaking" quite helpful, also: http://www.amazon.com/Conversationally-Speaking-Increase-Per... An easy read with practical tips on how to communicate with others in various situations.
我很久以前读过 Alan Pease 写的《会话的艺术》，可以说它真的改变了我的生活。这是一本教你如何更好地进行交谈的自我提升类书籍。我从中得到的最大收获是，通常大方承认……
I read Conversationally Speaking by Alan Pease a long time ago, and I can really say it changed my life. It's a self help book on how to have better conversations. The main point I took away was that its usually pretty cool to acknowledge…
…want to buy for yourself? - etc. And here are a couple of books to consider reading: - "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" - almost everything here applies to adults too. - "Conversationally Speaking" - a general guide on asking good questions with meaningful answers. Some of the examples are awkward but you will get the idea. Good luck.
……《人性的弱点》（戴尔·卡耐基的经典之作）-《言外之意》（Gerard I. Nierenberg, Henry H. Calero）-《人间游戏》（Eric Berne）-《体态语言分析》（Joe Nevarro, Marvin Karlins）-《会话的艺术》（Alan Garner）。对于每天都需要和人打交道的人（也就是所有人）来说，这些书打下了极好的基础，尤其是在你提防那些能说会道、试图……
…Friends and Influence People (a classic by Dale Carnegie) - Meta-Talk (Gerard I. Nierenberg, Henry H. Calero) - Games People Play (Eric Berne) - What Every Body is Saying (Joe Nevarro, Marvin Karlins) - Conversationally Speaking (Alan Garner) These books provide a great foundation for anyone who needs to deal with people on a daily basis (ie. everyone), and are especially useful if you want to be aware of fast-talkers trying…
我也觉得《会话的艺术》相当有帮助：http://www.amazon.com/Conversationally-Speaking-Increase-Per... 读起来很轻松，里面有很多关于在各种场合下与人沟通的实用小贴士。
I've found "Conversationally Speaking" quite helpful, also: http://www.amazon.com/Conversationally-Speaking-Increase-Per... An easy read with practical tips on how to communicate with others in various situations.
我很久以前读过 Alan Pease 写的《会话的艺术》，可以说它真的改变了我的生活。这是一本教你如何更好地进行交谈的自我提升类书籍。我从中得到的最大收获是，通常大方承认……
I read Conversationally Speaking by Alan Pease a long time ago, and I can really say it changed my life. It's a self help book on how to have better conversations. The main point I took away was that its usually pretty cool to acknowledge…
……想给自己买点什么？——等等。另外这里有几本书值得考虑读一读：-《如何说孩子才会听，怎么听孩子才肯说》——里面的内容几乎全部适用于成年人。-《会话的艺术》——一本教你如何提出好问题并获得有意义回答的通用指南。里面有些例子可能有点尴尬，但你能领会其中的意思。祝你好运。
…want to buy for yourself? - etc. And here are a couple of books to consider reading: - "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" - almost everything here applies to adults too. - "Conversationally Speaking" - a general guide on asking good questions with meaningful answers. Some of the examples are awkward but you will get the idea. Good luck.