Philip Zimbardo, who ran the Stanford Prison Experiment, has written and spoken on this topic too. TED talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/zimchallenge Man, Interrupted (Why Young Men are Struggling & What We Can Do About It): https://www.amazon.com/Man-Interrupted-Young-Struggling-Abou...
Dr. Philip Zimbardo wrote a book called "Man, Interrupted" that addresses this topic to some degree. One factor that he mentioned was the advent of high-speed internet, supporting both video games (virtual achievement) and pornography (virtual gratification).…
…and availability. I think I can point to one reason, also anecdotally: It's like pulling teeth to get a FAANG dude about 27 to go out because he's playing online video games every night. Apropos book: Man, Interrupted (2016) by Philip Zimbardo (Stanford Prison Experiment and countless community college TV psych lectures) and Nikita Coulombe. There's also the death of live interaction (strangers and acquaintances),…
……真正想要社交，因为美国社会逼得大多数男性觉得自己“很差劲”，还说他们“蠢”。菲利普·津巴多写过好几本关于这个主题的书，《中断的男孩》（Boy, Interrupted）、《中断的男人》（Man, Interrupted）、《失联的男人》（Man: Disconnected），而且还做过关于这个话题的 TED 演讲。要是她不想让自己的大学/课堂变成相亲角，她大可以去养老院教书或者去当修女。根据托马斯·J·斯坦利（Thomas J. Stanley）的说法，……
…actually want to socialize because US society is pushing most men into feeling "bad" about themselves and saying they're "stupid". Philip Zimbardo wrote several books on the subject "Boy, Interrupted", "Man, Interrupted", "Man: Disconnected" and has a TED talk on the subject. If she didn't want her university/class to be a dating service, she should go teach at nursing homes or become a nun. According to Thomas J. Stanley,…
另请参阅：菲利普·津巴多（Philip Zimbardo）的《中断的男人》（Man, Interrupted）和《失联的男人》（Man (Dis)connected）。另外，还有一场关于该主题的 TED 演讲。
See also: Man, Interrupted and Man (Dis)conneted by Philip Zimbardo. Also, a TED talk on the subject.
主导斯坦福监狱实验的菲利普·津巴多，就这个话题也写过书做过演讲。TED 演讲：https://www.ted.com/talks/zimchallenge 《中断的男人（年轻男性为何陷入困境以及我们能做些什么）》：https://www.amazon.com/Man-Interrupted-Young-Struggling-Abou...
Philip Zimbardo, who ran the Stanford Prison Experiment, has written and spoken on this topic too. TED talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/zimchallenge Man, Interrupted (Why Young Men are Struggling & What We Can Do About It): https://www.amazon.com/Man-Interrupted-Young-Struggling-Abou...
菲利普·津巴多博士写过一本名为《中断的男人》的书，在一定程度上探讨了这个话题。他提到的一个因素是高速互联网的出现，它同时支撑起了电子游戏（虚拟成就感）和色情内容（虚拟满足感）。……
Dr. Philip Zimbardo wrote a book called "Man, Interrupted" that addresses this topic to some degree. One factor that he mentioned was the advent of high-speed internet, supporting both video games (virtual achievement) and pornography (virtual gratification).…
……以及可得性。我觉得我可以指出一个原因，同样是道听途说/身边的例子：想叫一个大概27岁的 FAANG 员工出来玩简直比拔牙还难，因为他每晚都要在网上打电子游戏。相关的书有：菲利普·津巴多（搞过斯坦福监狱实验以及无数社区大学电视心理学讲座的那位）与尼基塔·库隆布（Nikita Coulombe）合著的《中断的男人》（2016）。此外还有面对面现实社交（无论是陌生人还是熟人）的消亡，……
…and availability. I think I can point to one reason, also anecdotally: It's like pulling teeth to get a FAANG dude about 27 to go out because he's playing online video games every night. Apropos book: Man, Interrupted (2016) by Philip Zimbardo (Stanford Prison Experiment and countless community college TV psych lectures) and Nikita Coulombe. There's also the death of live interaction (strangers and acquaintances),…
……真正想要社交，因为美国社会逼得大多数男性觉得自己“很差劲”，还说他们“蠢”。菲利普·津巴多写过好几本关于这个主题的书，《中断的男孩》（Boy, Interrupted）、《中断的男人》（Man, Interrupted）、《失联的男人》（Man: Disconnected），而且还做过关于这个话题的 TED 演讲。要是她不想让自己的大学/课堂变成相亲角，她大可以去养老院教书或者去当修女。根据托马斯·J·斯坦利（Thomas J. Stanley）的说法，……
…actually want to socialize because US society is pushing most men into feeling "bad" about themselves and saying they're "stupid". Philip Zimbardo wrote several books on the subject "Boy, Interrupted", "Man, Interrupted", "Man: Disconnected" and has a TED talk on the subject. If she didn't want her university/class to be a dating service, she should go teach at nursing homes or become a nun. According to Thomas J. Stanley,…