……我是第一条评论，特地来推荐一本文章读到一半就立刻闪过脑海的书。如果你想探究人类社会结构，以及我们如今到底错失了多少社交生活，去读读 Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）吧。（我记得是 80 年代末出版的。）里面专门有一章讲郊区化，探讨了那玩意儿把人际交往毁成了什么糟糕模样，尤其是因为你干啥都必须钻进汽车里……
…the first one, because I'm coming to suggest a book that I immediately thought of as I got halfway through the article. If you want to read about human society and how much of it we're missing, read The Great Good Place, by Ray Oldenburg. (I believe it came out in the late 1980's.) There is a chapter on suburbia, and what an awful mess that has made of human sociability, particularly because you have to get in your car…
推荐阅读：Jane Jacobs 的《美国大城市的死与生》、Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）、Booker T Washington 的《从奴隶中崛起》（Up from Slavery）。我会先别急着去搞懂整个城市怎么运转。不如从如何打造一个行之有效的社区开始？在这样的社区里，居民可以接受良好教育、参与地方自治，还能找到……
Recommended reading: Jane Jacobs "The Death and Life of Great American Cities" Ray Oldenburg "great good place" Booker T Washington: Up from Slavery I'd skip figuring out cities. Start with how to create neighborhoods that work? Where citizens can be educated, participate in their local government, and find…
完全赞同。我最近读了很多这方面的书，推荐这几本：Johann Hari 的《迷失的纽带》（Lost Connections）、Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）、Robert Putnam 的《在一起更美好》（Better Together）
Absolutely agree. I've been reading a lot about this recently, recommend: Lost Connections by Johann Hari The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg Better Together by Robert Putnam
……是“工作”，第三个则是“社群”。https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/第三空间 你并不*一定需要*一个“第二空间”，但你可能会发现把精力重点放在第一和第三空间上大有裨益。Ray Oldenburg 写的原著《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）稍微有点年代感了。它写于现代互联生活初现端倪的时期（80年代末？）。虽然难免有些小瑕疵，但这个概念极大程度地帮助了我，让我更有针对性、更直接地……
…is 'work', third is 'community'. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place You don't _need_ a 'second place', but you may find it helpful to double down on the first and third. The original book, The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg, is a bit dated. It was written at the cusp of modern connected life (late 80s?). While it does bore a few faults, the concept has helped me immensely in being purposeful and direct in…
CTRL+F 搜“第三空间”——点赞拿好不谢。每一个深陷孤独流行病折磨的人都该备一本 Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）。它的核心主旨就是：你必须让自己融入社区里富有社交活力的场所。包括：教堂、有熟客经常光顾的本地酒馆或咖啡馆（最好是步行可达的……
CTRL+F "third place" -- take my upvote. Anyone suffering in the loneliness epidemic should have a copy of The Great Good Place, by Ray Oldenburg. The entire point is that you should be putting yourself into socially active areas in your community. This includes: a church, a local pub or coffee shop with regulars (ideally walking…
……Kunstler 的《无处之地：美国的衰落与郊区景观的崛起》（Geography of Nowhere）、《城市的屠杀：作为种族清洗的城市更新》（The Slaughter of Cities）、《街头属于人民：美国人入门读本》（Streets for People）、《独自保龄：美国社区的衰落与复兴》（Bowling Alone）、《绝佳的好去处：咖啡馆、咖啡店、书店、酒吧、美发沙龙及其他社区核心聚集地》（The Great Good Place）
…Kunstler: Geography of Nowhere The Slaughter of Cities: Urban Renewal as Ethnic Cleansing Streets for People: A Primer for Americans Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community The Great Good Place: Cafes, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Bars, Hair Salons, and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community
……我是第一条评论，特地来推荐一本文章读到一半就立刻闪过脑海的书。如果你想探究人类社会结构，以及我们如今到底错失了多少社交生活，去读读 Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）吧。（我记得是 80 年代末出版的。）里面专门有一章讲郊区化，探讨了那玩意儿把人际交往毁成了什么糟糕模样，尤其是因为你干啥都必须钻进汽车里……
…the first one, because I'm coming to suggest a book that I immediately thought of as I got halfway through the article. If you want to read about human society and how much of it we're missing, read The Great Good Place, by Ray Oldenburg. (I believe it came out in the late 1980's.) There is a chapter on suburbia, and what an awful mess that has made of human sociability, particularly because you have to get in your car…
推荐阅读：Jane Jacobs 的《美国大城市的死与生》、Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）、Booker T Washington 的《从奴隶中崛起》（Up from Slavery）。我会先别急着去搞懂整个城市怎么运转。不如从如何打造一个行之有效的社区开始？在这样的社区里，居民可以接受良好教育、参与地方自治，还能找到……
Recommended reading: Jane Jacobs "The Death and Life of Great American Cities" Ray Oldenburg "great good place" Booker T Washington: Up from Slavery I'd skip figuring out cities. Start with how to create neighborhoods that work? Where citizens can be educated, participate in their local government, and find…
完全赞同。我最近读了很多这方面的书，推荐这几本：Johann Hari 的《迷失的纽带》（Lost Connections）、Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）、Robert Putnam 的《在一起更美好》（Better Together）
Absolutely agree. I've been reading a lot about this recently, recommend: Lost Connections by Johann Hari The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg Better Together by Robert Putnam
……是“工作”，第三个则是“社群”。https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/第三空间 你并不*一定需要*一个“第二空间”，但你可能会发现把精力重点放在第一和第三空间上大有裨益。Ray Oldenburg 写的原著《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）稍微有点年代感了。它写于现代互联生活初现端倪的时期（80年代末？）。虽然难免有些小瑕疵，但这个概念极大程度地帮助了我，让我更有针对性、更直接地……
…is 'work', third is 'community'. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place You don't _need_ a 'second place', but you may find it helpful to double down on the first and third. The original book, The Great Good Place by Ray Oldenburg, is a bit dated. It was written at the cusp of modern connected life (late 80s?). While it does bore a few faults, the concept has helped me immensely in being purposeful and direct in…
CTRL+F 搜“第三空间”——点赞拿好不谢。每一个深陷孤独流行病折磨的人都该备一本 Ray Oldenburg 的《绝佳的好去处》（The Great Good Place）。它的核心主旨就是：你必须让自己融入社区里富有社交活力的场所。包括：教堂、有熟客经常光顾的本地酒馆或咖啡馆（最好是步行可达的……
CTRL+F "third place" -- take my upvote. Anyone suffering in the loneliness epidemic should have a copy of The Great Good Place, by Ray Oldenburg. The entire point is that you should be putting yourself into socially active areas in your community. This includes: a church, a local pub or coffee shop with regulars (ideally walking…
……Kunstler 的《无处之地：美国的衰落与郊区景观的崛起》（Geography of Nowhere）、《城市的屠杀：作为种族清洗的城市更新》（The Slaughter of Cities）、《街头属于人民：美国人入门读本》（Streets for People）、《独自保龄：美国社区的衰落与复兴》（Bowling Alone）、《绝佳的好去处：咖啡馆、咖啡店、书店、酒吧、美发沙龙及其他社区核心聚集地》（The Great Good Place）
…Kunstler: Geography of Nowhere The Slaughter of Cities: Urban Renewal as Ethnic Cleansing Streets for People: A Primer for Americans Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community The Great Good Place: Cafes, Coffee Shops, Bookstores, Bars, Hair Salons, and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community