…years when those school programs were put in place. In other words, don't just rely on intuition about what would be helpful, but look into actual research. Seligman's books Learned Optimism[1] and The Optimistic Child[2] are both helpful, although there should be some even newer research out by now. Reading those books may help you deal with the challenges of working on this interesting project while keeping up with…
我认识的人格心理学学者告诉我，“习得性无助”概念的提出者、兼《The Optimistic Child》等实用书籍的作者 Martin E. P. Seligman，曾建议他的学生 Angela Duckworth 将这一特质命名为“grit”，作为一种营销手段，以便让更多人关注这一理念。在心理学文献中，大家早就一直在写……
The personality psychologists I know tell me that Martin E. P. Seligman, the originator of the idea of "learned helplessness" and the author of helpful books such as The Optimistic Child, advised his student Angela Duckworth to call "grit" by that term as a marketing move to make people pay more attention to the idea. In the psychology literature, people have been writing for a long time…
……随着孩子们长大，我们一直在家教（homeschooling），两年前的父亲节，我家老大还给我发了封特别暖心的邮件，说他很庆幸我当年这么做了。两年后的今天他依然这么觉得。3）Martin E. P. Seligman 的《The Optimistic Child》[C] 很适合用来教孩子如何应对人生中不可避免的难题与挫折。4）Carol Dweck 的《Mindset》[D] 是一本在帮助年轻人方面极好的书……
…homeschoolers as our children have grown up, and our firstborn sent me a very kind email on Father's Day two years ago telling me he is glad I did that. He still thinks so two years later. 3) The book The Optimistic Child[C] by Martin E. P. Seligman is good for teaching children how to deal with inevitable problems and setbacks of human life. 4) The book Mindset[D] by Carol Dweck is a very good book on helping young people…
……http://www.davidsongifted.org/youngscholars/ 我们了解到了——并且与其他家长分享了——关于培养孩子乐观品质的资源。我特别喜欢 Martin E. P. Seligman 的书《The Optimistic Child》http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Safeguard-Depression-...，它提供了一个框架，让孩子们学会对自己的想法进行现实检验，不至于因生活中的挫折而陷入抑郁。
…http://www.davidsongifted.org/youngscholars/ we have learned about--and have shared--resources with other parents about building optimism in children. I especially like Martin E. P. Seligman's book The Optimistic Child http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Safeguard-Depression-... as a framework for children to learn how to reality-check their own thinking and not to be depressed by setbacks in life.
……你们那代人上学时学校里推行的“自尊（self-esteem）”运动对学生是有害的，没有赋予他们在面对逆境时的抗逆力（resilience）。欲了解更多关于“乐观”与“自尊”有何不同的信息，请参见 Martin E. P. Seligman 的书《The Optimistic Child》http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Depression-BuildLifel...（这本书对成年人也很有用，即使你不是父母）……
…"self-esteem" movement in schools when your generation was in school was harmful to school pupils, not giving them the resources to be resilient when facing adversity. See Martin E. P. Seligman's book The Optimistic Child http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Depression-BuildLifel... (this book is good for adults too, even if they are not parents) for more information about how "optimism" differs from "self-esteem."…
sown, please jump to that Wikipedia article and look at Seligman's publications (at the bottom). You MUST read his book "The Optimistic Child", which you can probably get from your local library. The wording of your posts comes right off the pages of that book, and you're old enough and smart enough now to consider the phenomena described in…
……当年推行那些学校项目的时候。换句话说，别光凭直觉去判断什么会有帮助，而要去看看实际的研究。塞利格曼（Seligman）的《Learned Optimism》[1] 和《The Optimistic Child》[2] 都很有帮助，尽管现在应该已经有一些更新的研究了。读读这些书也许能帮你应对在推进这个有趣项目时的挑战，同时还能跟上……
…years when those school programs were put in place. In other words, don't just rely on intuition about what would be helpful, but look into actual research. Seligman's books Learned Optimism[1] and The Optimistic Child[2] are both helpful, although there should be some even newer research out by now. Reading those books may help you deal with the challenges of working on this interesting project while keeping up with…
我认识的人格心理学学者告诉我，“习得性无助”概念的提出者、兼《The Optimistic Child》等实用书籍的作者 Martin E. P. Seligman，曾建议他的学生 Angela Duckworth 将这一特质命名为“grit”，作为一种营销手段，以便让更多人关注这一理念。在心理学文献中，大家早就一直在写……
The personality psychologists I know tell me that Martin E. P. Seligman, the originator of the idea of "learned helplessness" and the author of helpful books such as The Optimistic Child, advised his student Angela Duckworth to call "grit" by that term as a marketing move to make people pay more attention to the idea. In the psychology literature, people have been writing for a long time…
……随着孩子们长大，我们一直在家教（homeschooling），两年前的父亲节，我家老大还给我发了封特别暖心的邮件，说他很庆幸我当年这么做了。两年后的今天他依然这么觉得。3）Martin E. P. Seligman 的《The Optimistic Child》[C] 很适合用来教孩子如何应对人生中不可避免的难题与挫折。4）Carol Dweck 的《Mindset》[D] 是一本在帮助年轻人方面极好的书……
…homeschoolers as our children have grown up, and our firstborn sent me a very kind email on Father's Day two years ago telling me he is glad I did that. He still thinks so two years later. 3) The book The Optimistic Child[C] by Martin E. P. Seligman is good for teaching children how to deal with inevitable problems and setbacks of human life. 4) The book Mindset[D] by Carol Dweck is a very good book on helping young people…
……http://www.davidsongifted.org/youngscholars/ 我们了解到了——并且与其他家长分享了——关于培养孩子乐观品质的资源。我特别喜欢 Martin E. P. Seligman 的书《The Optimistic Child》http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Safeguard-Depression-...，它提供了一个框架，让孩子们学会对自己的想法进行现实检验，不至于因生活中的挫折而陷入抑郁。
…http://www.davidsongifted.org/youngscholars/ we have learned about--and have shared--resources with other parents about building optimism in children. I especially like Martin E. P. Seligman's book The Optimistic Child http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Safeguard-Depression-... as a framework for children to learn how to reality-check their own thinking and not to be depressed by setbacks in life.
……你们那代人上学时学校里推行的“自尊（self-esteem）”运动对学生是有害的，没有赋予他们在面对逆境时的抗逆力（resilience）。欲了解更多关于“乐观”与“自尊”有何不同的信息，请参见 Martin E. P. Seligman 的书《The Optimistic Child》http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Depression-BuildLifel...（这本书对成年人也很有用，即使你不是父母）……
…"self-esteem" movement in schools when your generation was in school was harmful to school pupils, not giving them the resources to be resilient when facing adversity. See Martin E. P. Seligman's book The Optimistic Child http://www.amazon.com/Optimistic-Child-Depression-BuildLifel... (this book is good for adults too, even if they are not parents) for more information about how "optimism" differs from "self-esteem."…
sown，请跳到那篇维基百科条目，看看 Seligman 发表的著作（在页面底部）。你一定要读读他的书《The Optimistic Child》，在当地图书馆大概率能借到。你帖子里用的措辞简直就是直接从那本书里抄出来的，而且你现在的年纪和智力也足以去思考书中描述的那些现象……
sown, please jump to that Wikipedia article and look at Seligman's publications (at the bottom). You MUST read his book "The Optimistic Child", which you can probably get from your local library. The wording of your posts comes right off the pages of that book, and you're old enough and smart enough now to consider the phenomena described in…