1-2-3魔法
1-2-3 magic
Thomas W. Phelan · 初版 1995 年
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“成为父母是人生中最有成就感的体验之一，但每个家庭都会面临令人沮丧且不知所措的挑战。二十五年来，国际知名临床心理学家 Thomas W. Phelan 的 1-2-3 Magic 已帮助数百万家长、教师和照看者培养出独立、高情商的孩子，并建立了更幸福、更健康的家庭——这一切都归功于一套简单易懂的方案，你定会赞叹它‘灵验得宛如魔法’……”
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……一旦我坐进摇椅里就闭上眼睛了。> 你还得面对一个在家里有三分之二时间都在对你尖叫的老板。你真得学学现代管教技巧了。我们用的是“1-2-3 魔法管教法”（1-2-3 Magic）。我们家幼儿一对我们尖叫，通常马上就是一声“一！”要是闹得特别凶，就直接罚站/关禁闭（time out），连数都不数。这方法真的很管用。我甚至通过大喊“一！”“二！”……来帮我妻子掌握这套方法，当……
…closed once I'm in the rocking chair. > You have to add in a boss who spends 2/3rd of the time you're home screaming at you to the mix. You really need to learn modern discipline techniques. We use 1-2-3 magic. When our toddler screams at us, it's usually an immediate "ONE!" If it's really bad, there's a time out with no counting. It really works. I even help my wife learn by shouting "ONE!" "TWO!" ... when…
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同意楼上的看法。我女儿快3岁了，非常自信也很有活力。我妻子买了这本书 https://www.amazon.co.uk/1-2-3-Magic-Effective-Discipline-Pa... 正在使用其中的技巧。看起来挺管用的。它更多是一种训练大人而不是小孩的方法。当他们做错事时尽量别抓狂，但要让他们明白……
Agree with the above. My daughter is nearly 3 and very confident and energetic. My wife picked up this book https://www.amazon.co.uk/1-2-3-Magic-Effective-Discipline-Pa... and is using the techniques. It seems to be working. It's more a means of training the adult not the child. Try not to freak out when they do the wrong thing but make them know…
《1-2-3 魔法管教法》（1-2-3 Magic）这本书只要你坚持执行，再野的孩子也能治得服服帖帖。给孩子几次改正的机会，感觉也更人性化。强烈推荐。
The book 1-2-3 Magic tames even the wildest kids if you are consistent. It feels humane to give kids a few chances to change their trajectory. Highly recommend.
其中一些关于控制自身反应以避免强化孩子发脾气等行为的建议，听起来完全就是出自《1-2-3 魔法管教法》，那是一本流行已久的老牌育儿书了。https://smile.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Discipline-Effective-Pa...
Some of the advice about controlling your reactions to avoid reinforcing tantrums etc. sounds straight out of 1-2-3 Magic, an old and popular parenting book. https://smile.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Discipline-Effective-Pa...
我一直在读《1-2-3 魔法管教法》（1-2-3 Magic）这本书（我的第一个孩子马上就要出生了），书里的理念存在极其鲜明的差异。123这套方法直接抨击了（它所谓的）“小大人”谬论——即认为跟他们讲道理只是……
I've been reading the 1-2-3 Magic book (expecting my first soon), and the philosophies have extremely stark differences. The 123 approach outright attacks (what it calls) the fallacy of "little adults" - saying that explaining is just…