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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read
Philippa Perry · 初版 2019 年
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我们如何才能拥有更好的人际关系？在这本Sunday Times畅销书中，知名心理治疗师Philippa Perry揭示了处理人际关系至关重要的“可为与不可为”。这是一本适合所有人阅读的书。无论你是想了解成长经历如何塑造了自己、希望妥善应对孩子的情绪，还是想给予伴侣支持，都能在这些书页中找到不可或缺的指导与务实的技巧。Philippa Perry清醒明智、不带评判色彩的建议，是教你如何与生命中最重要的人建立最佳关系的必备宝典。
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> “想想你是怎么被养大的，以及这是否影响了你现在的样子，也会很有帮助。” 对于对这方面感兴趣的人，我也推荐《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read: (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)》（作者：Philippa Perry）。
> "It also helps to think about how you were raised, and if that impacted the way you are." For people interested in this area, I can also recommend "The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read: (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)" (author: Philippa Perry).
嗯，作为准爸爸同胞，我妈最近自己读完后把她的《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read》送给了我（我挺喜欢她这种幽默感）。虽然我显然（暂时）还没法凭亲身体验去评判书里的建议到底站不站得住脚，但它看起来确实非常有见地……
Well, as a fellow dad-to-be, my mom recently gave me her copy of "The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read" after having read it herself (I like her sense of humor there). Although I obviously can't speak from first-hand experience (yet) whether or not the suggestions in it hold up, it does seem very insightful…
……贴上好或坏的标签都会同时伤害你和他们。- 你有认同某种育儿“风格”吗？我读过各种育儿风格，我最认同的“风格”来自 Philippa Perry 的《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read》。我想它有点类似于温和育儿（gentle parenting），但对我来说最重要的几点收获是：要友善，支持你的孩子和伴侣，带着同理心对待孩子，学会原谅……
…category labeled good or bad is going to harm both you and them. - Did you align with a "style" of parenting? I read about styles of parenting, the "style" that I aligned with most came from the The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read by Philippa Perry. I guess it's similar to gentle parenting but some of the most important takeaways for me were to be kind, support your child and partner, treat your children in an empathetic way, forgive…
……它们帮我消化并理解了一开始促使我成为创始人的动力。1. Tim Desmond 的《The Self-Compassion Skills Workbook》 2. 一行禅师（Thich Nhat Hanh）的《Path of Compassion》 3. Philippa Perry 的《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read》 4. Emily Nagoski 的《Burnout》 5. Lindsay C. Gibson 的《Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents》 6. Kristin Neff 博士的《Self-Compassion》 7. KC Davis 的《How to Keep House While Drowning》……
…they helped me metabolize and understand what drove me to become a founder in the first place. 1. The Self-Compassion Skills Workbook by Tim Desmond 2. Path of Compassion by Thich Nhat Hanh 3. The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read, Philippa Perry 4. Burnout by Emily Nagoski 5. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson 6. Self-Compassion, Dr. Kristin Neff 7. How to Keep House While Drowning, KC Davis…
……Duflo](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esther_Duflo) - [John Gottman](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gottman) 和 Joan DeClaire 合著的《Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child The Heart of Parenting》 - [Philippa Perry](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippa_Perry) 的 [《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read》](https://www.amazon.com/Book-Wish-Your-Parents-Read/dp/198487...): (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) - [The End Of The World…
…Duflo](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esther_Duflo) - Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child The Heart of Parenting by [John Gottman](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gottman), and Joan DeClaire - [The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read](https://www.amazon.com/Book-Wish-Your-Parents-Read/dp/198487...): (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) by [Philippa Perry](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippa_Perry) - [The End Of The World…
……很喜欢《Brain Rules for Baby》，目前在读《Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child》。两本都很好，感觉后者会成为我们育儿过程中的关键指引。我妻子非常喜欢《The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read》。
…enjoyed Brain Rules for Baby and currently reading Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. Both good, feel like the latter is going to be a pivotal part of our parenting. My wife really enjoyed The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read.