……孤独。虽然圣经很有趣也很有洞见，但它并不侧重于“如何快乐地度过离群索居的生活”这个问题。我不太确定这方面有没有好书。也许萨拉·梅特兰（Sara Maitland）的书《如何独处》（How to Be Alone）算一本吧。也许。
…loneliness. While the bible is interesting and insightful, it isn't focused on the question of how to be happy living an isolated life. I'm not sure there good books on that. Maybe Sara Maitland's book "how to be alone". maybe.
I'm not sure to what degree her perspective is specifically feminine, but Sara Maitland has written two books on solitude and silence: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20518977-how-to-be-alone https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4437202-a-book-of-silenc...
我推荐乔纳森·弗兰岑（Jonathan Franzen）收录在《如何独处》（How To Be Alone）里的那篇关于邮政服务的散文，能让人深入了解邮政服务实际上有多重要。现实中有很多真正关系到普通人生活的业务流程，都是依赖邮政信件的。
I recommend Jonathan Franzen's postal service essay in _How To Be Alone_ for some perspective on how important the postal service actually is. There are a number of business processes that actually touch normal people's lives that depend on postal mail.
…time. Novel activities are good for your brain! Another thing I have observed, especially in the age of social media--but it's not new, just seems worse now--is that a lot of young people need to learn how to be alone. Some people are hardly never alone. They have to learn this before they can learn to concentrate. If you are like me, an introvert, you are probably alone a lot (if you are not, that can drain you of…
Knowing how to be alone and being social is not a rigid dichotomy. I think it’s clear what Tarkovsky means: that there is immense value in self-discovery. I’ve heard similar sentiments from other great artists. Grothendieck…
…non-fiction, so here are my highlights - Crime and Punishment - Homo Deus - Catch 22 - Flash Boys - The Art of Strategy - Moby Dick (could only get halfway through though :() - The Great Gatsby - How to be Alone (couldn't get past 2 chapters)
……孤独。虽然圣经很有趣也很有洞见，但它并不侧重于“如何快乐地度过离群索居的生活”这个问题。我不太确定这方面有没有好书。也许萨拉·梅特兰（Sara Maitland）的书《如何独处》（How to Be Alone）算一本吧。也许。
…loneliness. While the bible is interesting and insightful, it isn't focused on the question of how to be happy living an isolated life. I'm not sure there good books on that. Maybe Sara Maitland's book "how to be alone". maybe.
我不确定她的视角在多大程度上带有鲜明的女性色彩，但萨拉·梅特兰写过两本关于独处和沉寂的书：https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20518977-how-to-be-alone https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4437202-a-book-of-silenc……
I'm not sure to what degree her perspective is specifically feminine, but Sara Maitland has written two books on solitude and silence: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20518977-how-to-be-alone https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4437202-a-book-of-silenc...
我推荐乔纳森·弗兰岑（Jonathan Franzen）收录在《如何独处》（How To Be Alone）里的那篇关于邮政服务的散文，能让人深入了解邮政服务实际上有多重要。现实中有很多真正关系到普通人生活的业务流程，都是依赖邮政信件的。
I recommend Jonathan Franzen's postal service essay in _How To Be Alone_ for some perspective on how important the postal service actually is. There are a number of business processes that actually touch normal people's lives that depend on postal mail.
……时间。新鲜的活动对你的大脑有好处！我还观察到的另一件事，尤其是在社交媒体时代——但这并非新鲜事，只是现在看起来更严重了——就是很多年轻人需要学会如何独处。有些人几乎从不独处。在学会专注之前，他们必须先学会这一点。如果你和我一样是个内向的人，你大概经常独处（如果你不这样，可能会被耗尽……
…time. Novel activities are good for your brain! Another thing I have observed, especially in the age of social media--but it's not new, just seems worse now--is that a lot of young people need to learn how to be alone. Some people are hardly never alone. They have to learn this before they can learn to concentrate. If you are like me, an introvert, you are probably alone a lot (if you are not, that can drain you of…
懂得如何独处与进行社交并不是非此即彼的刻板对立。我觉得塔可夫斯基的意思很明白：自我发现有着巨大的价值。我在其他伟大艺术家那里也听到过类似的观点。格罗滕迪克……
Knowing how to be alone and being social is not a rigid dichotomy. I think it’s clear what Tarkovsky means: that there is immense value in self-discovery. I’ve heard similar sentiments from other great artists. Grothendieck…
……非虚构类，所以我挑出的亮点有：-《罪与罚》 -《未来简史》 -《第二十二条军规》 -《闪击者》（Flash Boys） -《策略思维》 -《白鲸》（不过只看了一半 :() -《了不起的盖茨比》 -《如何独处》（连两章都啃不下去）
…non-fiction, so here are my highlights - Crime and Punishment - Homo Deus - Catch 22 - Flash Boys - The Art of Strategy - Moby Dick (could only get halfway through though :() - The Great Gatsby - How to be Alone (couldn't get past 2 chapters)