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Frientimacy
Shasta Nelson · 初版 2016 年
2位读者提及
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“在当今时刻保持互联的世界里，结识他人、结交新朋友从未如此容易，但建立有意义的友谊却从未如此艰难。在 Frientimacy 一书中，屡获殊荣的演讲家 Shasta Nelson 阐述了任何人都可以如何建立更牢固、更有意义的友谊，其标志是一种被她称为‘frientimacy’的信任程度。Shasta 探讨了当今女性友谊面临的十种最常见的抱怨与冲突，并提出了克服这些陷阱的策略，以建立深厚、支持性且长久的友谊。Shasta 还是 girlfriendcircles 的创始人……”
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…第二部分更多是关于一些具体场景，比如朋友病重，或者你不得不拒绝当伴娘。我挺推荐的，因为里面的概念解释可能很有帮助。我还没读过《Frientimacy》，看起来是类似的书。https://www.amazon.com/Art-Showing-Up-Yourself-People/dp/161... https://www.amazon.com/-/Shasta-Nelson/dp/1580056075
…The second part is more about specific situations like your friend is very ill or you have to decline being a bridesmaid. I recommend it as the concepts explanation might be helpful. I’ve not yet read “Frientimacy”, and it seems to be a similar book. https://www.amazon.com/Art-Showing-Up-Yourself-People/dp/161... https://www.amazon.com/-/Shasta-Nelson/dp/1580056075
…加深投入等等。老实说，这跟恋爱关系需要的东西完全一样，只是有些许关键的不同罢了 ;) （作家、《Frientimacy》作者 Shasta Nelson 提出的）一个很有帮助的推论是：我们都知道健身要想练出好身材，就必须经历一定程度的痛苦和挣扎（当然也有乐趣、享受和成就感等……）。对于这种体验，我们最好抱有同样的预期……
…strengthen commitment, etc. Honestly, it's all the same stuff that a romantic relationships requires, just with a couple significant variations ;) A helpful corollary (from writer Shasta Nelson author of "Frientimacy") is that we all understand that working out requires some amount of pain and struggle (also fun, enjoyment, accomplishment, etc...) in order to get a great bod. We would do well to expect the same experience…