也许你该找个人聊聊
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
Lori Gottlieb · 初版 2019 年
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来自《纽约时报》畅销书作家、心理治疗师兼全国咨询专栏作家的幽默、发人深省且充满惊喜的新作，带我们走进治疗师的幕后世界——在那里，她的来访者在寻找答案（她自己亦然）。前一天，Lori Gottlieb 还是在洛杉矶诊所为患者答疑解惑的治疗师；第二天，一场危机便让她的世界轰然崩塌。于是 Wendell 登场了，这位古怪却经验老到的治疗师的诊室成了她猝不及防的落脚点。他顶着光秃的头顶，身着开襟羊毛衫和卡其裤，仿佛直接出自“治疗师特型演员选角中心”……
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洛莉·戈特利布（Lori Gottlieb）写的《也许你该找个人聊聊》（Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed）> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/37570546-maybe-you-shoul...
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed by Lori Gottlieb > https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/37570546-maybe-you-shoul...
提两个建议。1- 靠捐精自己生娃。洛莉·戈特利布在神书《也许你该找个人聊聊》里详细讲述了自己这么做的经历。2- 纯粹享受生活就好。不考虑生孩子的事，你大可以找个聊得来的人——心理压力小得多。找个你愿意依靠的人。祝好运！！
2 suggestions. 1- Have kids on your own via a sperm donor. Lori Gottlieb details her journey doing just so in the excellent book, “¿Maybe you should talk to someone?” 2- Just have fun. With kids off the table, you can find someone you can talk to—a lot lower stakes. Someone you like depending on. Good luck!!
……也有类似但不太一样的问题，但如果你很难扛过去，一定要去寻求专业帮助。从你的帖子里看，问题好像不在于你的工作，而是外部因素。我也建议读读《也许你该找个人聊聊》。这个社会总是鼓励我们时刻显得开心、充满活力，但很多时候我们生命中需要能让自己敞开心扉的人。
…also have problems not the same but you need to seek professional help if you have a hard time coping. From your post it appears your job is not the problem but outside factors. I also suggest reading "Maybe you should talk to someone". We are rewarded for seeming happy and excited all the time, but often we need people in our life who we can open up to.