娇惯的心灵
The Coddling of the American Mind
Greg Lukianoff、Jonathan Haidt · 初版 2018 年
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为什么值得读
- 清晰阐明近三十年育儿与校园环境的具体演变
- 解释了过度保护为何让年轻人在现实挫折前受挫
- 有助于理解社交媒体和智能手机时代的校园困境
“近几年来，许多大学校园里都出现了一些问题。焦虑、抑郁和自杀的发生率正在上升。演讲者被嘘声轰下台。学生和教授们表示自己如履薄冰，不敢坦诚发言。这一切究竟是如何发生的？First Amendment 专家 Greg Lukianoff 和社会心理学家 Jonathan Haidt 表明，校园里的新问题源于深深植根于美国童年与教育的三大荒谬观念：打不倒你的会让你更脆弱；永远相信自己的感觉；以及人生是一场好人与
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……大概从90年代末开始，家长们变得越来越过度保护，而且情况还在愈演愈烈。孩子们再也学不会如何面对挫折了。所以一旦面对现实世界，他们就会不知所措。有本书叫《The Coddling of the American Mind》，把这个问题讲得比我透彻得多。“第一修正案专家 Greg Lukianoff 和社会心理学家 Jonathan Haidt 揭示了校园里的新问题是如何根植于三个可怕的……
…Parents started to become overprotective somewhere in the late 90's and it's only getting worse. Kids don't learn to deal with setbacks anymore. So the real world overwhelms them. There's a book, The Coddling of the American Mind, that explains the problem much better than I do. "First Amendment expert Greg Lukianoff and social psychologist Jonathan Haidt show how the new problems on campus have their origins in three terrible…
……疲软，很多人找不到其他活儿干，于是蜂拥涌向相对稳定的教师岗位。在社交媒体和智能手机时代，教书可能也没那么让人顺心了，原因在《The Coddling of the American Mind》（强烈推荐这本书）里列得很全。这里面可能还有性别因素在起作用；放到现在，我很难推荐男生去当老师了：https://jakeseliger.com/2014/09/08/why-dont-more-men-go-into....
…weak, many people cannot find other gigs and so flood into the relative security of teaching. Teaching may also be less pleasant in the social media and smartphone age, for reasons enumerated in The Coddling of the American Mind (a highly recommended book). There may also be a gender dynamic at work; today, it would be hard for me to recommend that guys go into teaching: https://jakeseliger.com/2014/09/08/why-dont-more-men-go-into....
正好推荐一些延伸阅读：《The Coddling of the American Mind》[1]，这本书非常出色地概述了过去30年里发生了什么变化，以及为什么人们在自我认知上存在着巨大的代沟。事实证明，养育孩子……
This is a good time to recommend some supplementary reading: The Coddling of the American Mind[1], a book that does a great job of outlining what has changed in the last 30 years and why there is very much a generational gap at play with how people perceive themselves. It turns out, raising kids…
Greg Lukianoff 和 Jonathan Haidt 写的《The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure》[1]，我未必赞同书里的所有观点，但它帮我理解了我所见到的那些变化……
The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure [1] by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt I didn't necessarily agree with all of it but it helped me understand the changes I've…
……在美国的高中经历反而更像拉丁美洲。美国正在发生某种变化，而且正在变烂。有本书对其中一些变化做了很好的梳理：“The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure”（作者 Greg Lukianoff 和 Jonathan Haidt）。
…had a high school experience in the US more like the Latin American one. Something is changing about the US, and it's rotten. There's a book that presents a good overview of some of these changes: "The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure" (by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt).
与此相关的，且深度聚焦于美国经验的一本书：《The Coddling of the American Mind》> (...) 那些日益交织进美国童年与教育的观念：杀不死你的只会让你更脆弱；永远相信自己的感觉；人生就是一场好人与……之间的战斗。
Related to this, deeply focused on the American experience: The Coddling of the American Mind > (...) ideas that have become increasingly woven into American childhood and education: What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker; always trust your feelings; and life is a battle between good people and…