…directions. I have been reading the references, reading the references of those references, and going off in other adventures in reading including recent feminist scholarship such as https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... I think that love is the most popular topic for storytelling and this project has vastly improved my ability to confabulate on the subject.
See what it is like from a women's perspective https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... PG's talk about it reminds me of Rush Limbaugh talking about Net Neutrality. I disagreed with Rush about most things but most of the time I thought Rush had some understanding…
……觉得它既是 1) 挺好玩的，又是 2) 可怕的心理折磨。最近 TikTok 上的约会视频、Christine Emba 的《Rethinking Sex》、Oliver Traldi 的这篇帖子、韩炳哲的《爱欲之死》（The Agony of Eros），以及伊娃·易洛斯（Eva Illouz）的《为什么爱会受伤》（Why Love Hurts），让我开始思考为什么人们似乎觉得现代约会市场如此令人沮丧。如果约会既是“可怕的心理折磨”又“如此令人沮丧”，这种情况描述的是……
…experienced it both as 1) really fun and 2) terrible psychological torment. Lately dating videos on TikTok, Rethinking Sex by Christine Emba, this post by Oliver Traldi, The Agony of Eros by Byung-Chul Han, and Why Love Hurts by Eva Illouz have made me think about why people seem to find the modern dating market so unsatisfying. If dating is both "terrible psychological torment" and "so unsatisfying", which describes a situation…
…might be diminished in 20 years. if you don't you are going to be asking the exact same hand-wringing questions you are right now.) Feminist author Eva Illouz https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/03/22/why-love-hurts-eva... describes the difficulty that women find in finding meaningful and committed relationships. The fact that many young men are lost is a major input to that. As an student on love, relationships,…
…last six months, I have been reading a lot on love and relationships, I can eat up books like https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1088620.Cold_Intimacies https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Les_Liaisons_dangereuses like candy but I found both of these books hit my emotionally hard and I had to slow down my reading https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/a/morton-hunt/the... https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41014757-what-do-women-w...
This book talks about how having too many choices (or the perception of too many choices) mean you don't make good decisions https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts
……方向。我一直在顺着参考文献读，读参考文献里的参考文献，还展开了其他阅读探险，包括最近的女性主义学术成果，比如 https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... 我觉得爱情是讲故事最热门的话题，而这个项目极大地提高了我在这方面信手胡诌的能力。
…directions. I have been reading the references, reading the references of those references, and going off in other adventures in reading including recent feminist scholarship such as https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... I think that love is the most popular topic for storytelling and this project has vastly improved my ability to confabulate on the subject.
去看看女性视角是什么样的吧 https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... PG 谈论这个让我想起 Rush Limbaugh 聊网络中立性（Net Neutrality）。大多数事情我都不同意 Rush，但大多数时候我认为 Rush 至少有些了解……
See what it is like from a women's perspective https://www.amazon.com/Why-Love-Hurts-Sociological-Explanati... PG's talk about it reminds me of Rush Limbaugh talking about Net Neutrality. I disagreed with Rush about most things but most of the time I thought Rush had some understanding…
……觉得它既是 1) 挺好玩的，又是 2) 可怕的心理折磨。最近 TikTok 上的约会视频、Christine Emba 的《Rethinking Sex》、Oliver Traldi 的这篇帖子、韩炳哲的《爱欲之死》（The Agony of Eros），以及伊娃·易洛斯（Eva Illouz）的《为什么爱会受伤》（Why Love Hurts），让我开始思考为什么人们似乎觉得现代约会市场如此令人沮丧。如果约会既是“可怕的心理折磨”又“如此令人沮丧”，这种情况描述的是……
…experienced it both as 1) really fun and 2) terrible psychological torment. Lately dating videos on TikTok, Rethinking Sex by Christine Emba, this post by Oliver Traldi, The Agony of Eros by Byung-Chul Han, and Why Love Hurts by Eva Illouz have made me think about why people seem to find the modern dating market so unsatisfying. If dating is both "terrible psychological torment" and "so unsatisfying", which describes a situation…
……在 20 年内可能会减少。如果你不这样做，你就会遇到和现在一模一样令人抓狂的问题。）女性主义作家伊娃·易洛斯（Eva Illouz）在 https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/03/22/why-love-hurts-eva... 中描述了女性在寻找有意义且忠诚承诺的关系时遇到的困难。许多年轻男性的迷茫是导致这种情况的一个主要原因。作为一个研究爱情、关系……的学生，
…might be diminished in 20 years. if you don't you are going to be asking the exact same hand-wringing questions you are right now.) Feminist author Eva Illouz https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/03/22/why-love-hurts-eva... describes the difficulty that women find in finding meaningful and committed relationships. The fact that many young men are lost is a major input to that. As an student on love, relationships,…
……过去六个月里，我读了很多关于爱情和关系的书，我可以像吃糖一样一口气刷完像 https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1088620.Cold_Intimacies、https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts 和 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Les_Liaisons_dangereuses 这样的书，但我发现这两本书在情感上狠狠击中了我，我不得不放慢阅读速度 https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/a/morton-hunt/the... https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41014757-what-do-women-w...
…last six months, I have been reading a lot on love and relationships, I can eat up books like https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1088620.Cold_Intimacies https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Les_Liaisons_dangereuses like candy but I found both of these books hit my emotionally hard and I had to slow down my reading https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/a/morton-hunt/the... https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41014757-what-do-women-w...
这本书讲的是拥有太多选择（或者以为自己有很多选择）如何导致你无法做出好决定 https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts
This book talks about how having too many choices (or the perception of too many choices) mean you don't make good decisions https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13763042-why-love-hurts