如果你想更好地理解发生了什么，我推荐《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书。它提出，给人们有意义的工作和成功的途径是对抗成瘾的一种可行治疗手段。需要说明的是，我对这方面还算挺了解……
I will recommend the book The truth about addiction and recovery if you want to better understand what happened. It suggests that giving people meaningful work and a means to succeed is a viable means of treatment for addiction. I will note that I know a fair amount…
……强加一种“这已经超出他们掌控”的心理预期——例如，将酗酒归咎于酒精本身的文化，其酗酒率要高于要求个人承担责任的文化。书名是《The Truth About Addiction and Recovery》。曾有个酒鬼的妻子因为我推荐这本书而把我骂得狗血淋头，接着她又开始谈论“干醉”（dry drunks，指连续多年滴酒不沾但在心理上依然处于成瘾状态的人）……
…imposing expectations that it is out of their hands -- for example, cultures that blame alcoholism on the alcohol have higher rates of it than cultures that hold the individual responsible. Title: "The Truth About Addiction and Recovery". One wife of an alcoholic who tried to hand me my head for recommending this book then went on to talk about "dry drunks" (people who remain "addicted" to alcohol while not drinking for years at a time)…
> 如果你想更好地理解发生了什么，我推荐《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书。它提出，给人们有意义的工作和成功的途径是对抗成瘾的一种可行治疗手段。非常感谢你分享这个。……
> I will recommend the book The truth about addiction and recovery if you want to better understand what happened. It suggests that giving people meaningful work and a means to succeed is a viable means of treatment for addiction. I really appreciate you sharing this.…
有本叫《The Truth about Addiction and Recovery》的书你可能会感兴趣。它提出的一个观点是：过度关注饮酒问题往往会让问题更难解决。这让我深有共鸣。我父亲以前酗酒很严重……
There is a book called "The Truth about Addiction and Recovery" that you might find interesting. One of the points it makes is that focusing overly much on the drinking problem tends to make it harder to solve. That resonates with me. My father drank a great deal…
……父母是混蛋等等，随便什么原因吧。但在大多数情况下，在我看来他们沾染这些都是有原因的，如果那个根本原因好转了，他们往往就会停止使用。我挺喜欢《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书，它基本上就是持这个观点的。
…parents are assholes, whatever. But, in most cases, it looks to me like they use for a reason and if that underlying reason gets better, then they will tend to stop using. I am fond of the book "The truth about addiction and recovery" which basically takes this view.
……得到了妥善治疗。我觉得如果先假设你喝这么凶总归是有原因的，会更有帮助。现在你需要弄清楚原因到底是什么，并尝试解决这个底层问题。我觉得《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书是个很不错的参考资料。祝好。
…was properly treated. I think it would help to assume you have some reason for drinking so much. Now you need to figure out why that is and try to solve the underlying problem. I like the book "The truth about addiction and recovery" as a resource. Best.
如果你想更好地理解发生了什么，我推荐《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书。它提出，给人们有意义的工作和成功的途径是对抗成瘾的一种可行治疗手段。需要说明的是，我对这方面还算挺了解……
I will recommend the book The truth about addiction and recovery if you want to better understand what happened. It suggests that giving people meaningful work and a means to succeed is a viable means of treatment for addiction. I will note that I know a fair amount…
……强加一种“这已经超出他们掌控”的心理预期——例如，将酗酒归咎于酒精本身的文化，其酗酒率要高于要求个人承担责任的文化。书名是《The Truth About Addiction and Recovery》。曾有个酒鬼的妻子因为我推荐这本书而把我骂得狗血淋头，接着她又开始谈论“干醉”（dry drunks，指连续多年滴酒不沾但在心理上依然处于成瘾状态的人）……
…imposing expectations that it is out of their hands -- for example, cultures that blame alcoholism on the alcohol have higher rates of it than cultures that hold the individual responsible. Title: "The Truth About Addiction and Recovery". One wife of an alcoholic who tried to hand me my head for recommending this book then went on to talk about "dry drunks" (people who remain "addicted" to alcohol while not drinking for years at a time)…
> 如果你想更好地理解发生了什么，我推荐《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书。它提出，给人们有意义的工作和成功的途径是对抗成瘾的一种可行治疗手段。非常感谢你分享这个。……
> I will recommend the book The truth about addiction and recovery if you want to better understand what happened. It suggests that giving people meaningful work and a means to succeed is a viable means of treatment for addiction. I really appreciate you sharing this.…
有本叫《The Truth about Addiction and Recovery》的书你可能会感兴趣。它提出的一个观点是：过度关注饮酒问题往往会让问题更难解决。这让我深有共鸣。我父亲以前酗酒很严重……
There is a book called "The Truth about Addiction and Recovery" that you might find interesting. One of the points it makes is that focusing overly much on the drinking problem tends to make it harder to solve. That resonates with me. My father drank a great deal…
……父母是混蛋等等，随便什么原因吧。但在大多数情况下，在我看来他们沾染这些都是有原因的，如果那个根本原因好转了，他们往往就会停止使用。我挺喜欢《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书，它基本上就是持这个观点的。
…parents are assholes, whatever. But, in most cases, it looks to me like they use for a reason and if that underlying reason gets better, then they will tend to stop using. I am fond of the book "The truth about addiction and recovery" which basically takes this view.
……得到了妥善治疗。我觉得如果先假设你喝这么凶总归是有原因的，会更有帮助。现在你需要弄清楚原因到底是什么，并尝试解决这个底层问题。我觉得《The truth about addiction and recovery》这本书是个很不错的参考资料。祝好。
…was properly treated. I think it would help to assume you have some reason for drinking so much. Now you need to figure out why that is and try to solve the underlying problem. I like the book "The truth about addiction and recovery" as a resource. Best.