…学一门新语言，你突然就能获取到更多关于人和处境的信息。给内向害羞型人格的另一个建议（我自己也是/曾是其中一员——正在转变中:)，所以别介意）——Leil Lowndes 写的《告别羞怯》（Goodbye to Shy）。（预警：里面有不少听起来挺俗气的建议，但要是你忽略那些，能淘到不少实用的干货）
…learning a new language, you suddenly start getting more information about people and situations. Another suggestion for the shy types (am/was one - in transition :), so please don't take offense) - Goodbye to Shy by Leil Lowndes. (warning - there is quite some cheesy sounding advise, but if you look past that, you can find good usable stuff)
> 并且不相信会有人相信他们 我同意你的看法。在《告别羞怯》（Goodbye to Shy）中，Leil Lowndes 引用了一项研究，表明即使只是单纯害羞的人，也往往会比不害羞的人更负面地解读别人对自己的看法以及与别人的互动。…
> and who does not believe that anyone is going to believe them I agree with you. In "Goodbye to Shy", Leil Lowndes cites research that shows that even someone who is just shy will tend to interpret other peoples opinions of them and of interactions with them far more negatively than less shy people.…
…学一门新语言，你突然就能获取到更多关于人和处境的信息。给内向害羞型人格的另一个建议（我自己也是/曾是其中一员——正在转变中:)，所以别介意）——Leil Lowndes 写的《告别羞怯》（Goodbye to Shy）。（预警：里面有不少听起来挺俗气的建议，但要是你忽略那些，能淘到不少实用的干货）
…learning a new language, you suddenly start getting more information about people and situations. Another suggestion for the shy types (am/was one - in transition :), so please don't take offense) - Goodbye to Shy by Leil Lowndes. (warning - there is quite some cheesy sounding advise, but if you look past that, you can find good usable stuff)
> 并且不相信会有人相信他们 我同意你的看法。在《告别羞怯》（Goodbye to Shy）中，Leil Lowndes 引用了一项研究，表明即使只是单纯害羞的人，也往往会比不害羞的人更负面地解读别人对自己的看法以及与别人的互动。…
> and who does not believe that anyone is going to believe them I agree with you. In "Goodbye to Shy", Leil Lowndes cites research that shows that even someone who is just shy will tend to interpret other peoples opinions of them and of interactions with them far more negatively than less shy people.…