拒绝选择！
Refuse to Choose!
Barbara Sher · 初版 2006 年
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为什么值得读
- 将兴趣广泛重新定义为优势而非缺陷
- 提供工具管理想法且无需立即执行
- 缓解未能坚持完成项目的内疚感
生活方式导师 Sher 探讨了“Scanner”——即那些往往拥有广泛兴趣，却因热情和精力分散在太多不同方向而难以取得成功的人。Sher 归纳了七种类型的 Scanner——从 Serial Specialist（精通某一领域后便心生厌倦，急于转向下一个领域的人）到 Sybil（兴趣领域过于繁杂以至于一事无成的人）。Sher 开导 Scanner 们：这是一种独特的能力，而非累赘，并主张 Scanner 必须做所有……
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读过几本芭芭拉·舍尔（Barbara Sher）的书，比如《拒绝选择》（Refuse to Choose）[0]。她把我们这样的人称为“漫游者”（Scanners），并认为我们兴趣广泛并不是缺点，而是优势。接着她还介绍了一些方法，教我们如何把这种特质化为己用。[0] https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594863032/
Read a couple of books by Barbara sher: Refuse to choose [0] She calls people like us "Scanners" and claims that our diversity of interests is not a weakness, but a strength. Then goes on techniques to make this skill work for us. [0] https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594863032/
……外人看起来就很马虎草率。如果你在还没从项目里得到自己想要的东西之前就放弃了，不妨反思一下为什么。是什么促使你中途放弃的？去解决那个核心问题。我推荐读读芭芭拉·舍尔的《拒绝选择》；它给那些喜欢同时做70件不同事情的人提供了一些很实用的工具，包括如何拥有海量点子却不必每个都立刻动手去做。
…sloppy from the outside. If you're dropping projects before you get what you want from them, introspect on why. What's happening that leads you away? Address that. I recommend reading Barbara Sher's "Refuse to Choose"; it provides some useful tools for people who like to do 70 different things, including how to have lots of ideas without having to act on every one immediately.
我也经历过这种情况。推荐一本书：芭芭拉·舍尔写的《拒绝选择！》（Refuse to Choose!）。简短介绍看这里：https://www.getmotivation.com/motivationblog/2017/04/barbara... 简单来说：先摆脱内疚感，然后再去梳理你那繁多的兴趣爱好。
I have been there. I recommend the book: "Refuse to Choose!" by Barbara Sher. Short intro: https://www.getmotivation.com/motivationblog/2017/04/barbara... In short: get over the feeling of guilt first, then organize your multitudes of interests.
……其实并不是真心想做那个项目，只是觉得自己“应该”去做。我到现在依然会为此感到挺难受，并且因为没去推进自己的项目而深感内疚，不过我最近读完了芭芭拉·舍尔的《拒绝选择》，这书彻底改变了我的认知，虽然我还是会感到内疚，但我现在有了全新的视角，它给了我希望，让我意识到或许我并没有自己想象的那么不堪……
…don't really feel like working on the project, you just think that you should. I still feel pretty bad about this and have a lot of guilt by not pursuing my projects, however I recently finished reading "Refuse To Choose" by Barbara Sher and it was a game changer, I still feel bad about it but I see now a different perspective and it has given me hope and made me realize that perhaps I'm not as broken as I thought I was.…
“>而且我必须有始有终。”但你真的必须这样吗？不妨读读芭芭拉·舍尔的《拒绝选择》。世界上每个人都有属于自己的位置，并不是每个人都必须成为按部就班的管理者才能成功。
>And I need to finish things that I start. Do you, though? Try reading Barbara Sher's "Refuse to Choose". There's a place in the world for everyone, and not everyone has to be an administrator to succeed.
芭芭拉·舍尔的《拒绝选择》（Refuse to choose）。这本书写的就是和你类似的人。而且，如果你在一套特定的外部框架下能发挥得很好（并且乐在其中），为什么不顺势利用它呢？你当年喜欢那些为了拿学分而做的大学项目吗？那为什么不……
Barbara Sher - Refuse to choose. It's book about people similar to you. Also, if you work well with a particular extrinsic structure (and enjoy it), why not leverage that. did you enjoy the uni projects that were for grades? Why not…