如何成为绅士
How to be a gentleman
Bridges, John · 初版 1998 年
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在一个充满手机、快速通道、商务午餐和political correctness的世界里，做一名绅士似乎变得越来越复杂。John Bridges表示，绅士行为不在于繁文缛节，而在于常识与礼貌。绅士不会在音乐会期间使用手机，也不会借超出偿还能力的债务。他总是随手放下马桶圈。迷路时他会问路，他也懂得如何点一瓶葡萄酒。《How to Be a Gentleman》是一本写给男士的书，它融合了Emily Post和Miss Manners的精髓，同时又不显世故自负...
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看看这本书（《如何做一名绅士》/ How to Be a Gentleman）：http://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Gentleman-Contemporary-Courtesy... 我大概刚上大学那会儿入手的，真的非常受用。
Check this book out (How to Be a Gentleman): http://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Gentleman-Contemporary-Courtesy... I got a copy around the time I started college, and it's really quite invaluable.
……还有一场“soirée”（晚会/沙龙——用我大学室友的话说：“你这不叫办 party，你这叫办 soirée！”）。里面所有的建议都非常到位，搞得我又想当 host 办聚会了。如果你想再深入一点，有本书叫《How to be a Gentleman》（如何做一名绅士），里面有一节讲“绅士如何办派对”很实用；另外《Dads Own Cookbook》里有一章专门讲派对策划、招待、准备时间表……这里面其实有挺多门道和科学规律的……
…and a "soirée" (per my college roommate: "you don't have parties, you have soirées!") All the advice is really accurate, makes me miss hosting. If you want to go a little deeper, there's a book called "How to be a Gentleman", and it has a useful section on "A Gentleman Hosts a Party", and then "Dads Own Cookbook" has a chapter on party planning, hosting, preparation timelines... there's quite a bit of art and science to…