现代恋爱
Modern Romance
Aziz Ansari、Eric Klinenberg · 初版 2015 年
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为什么值得读
- 与社会学教授合作并进行了大量一手访谈
- 风格风趣幽默，极具可读性与趣味性
- 对比了过去与现在的约会及择偶观念
来自 NYU Wagner：在人生的某个节点，我们每个人都会踏上寻找真爱的旅程。我们结识他人、约会、陷入恋爱然后分手，这一切都寄托着找到与自己心意相通之人的希望。这在当下看似寻常，但与几十年前人们的做法相比，已是天差地别。如今的单身人士拥有人类历史上最丰富的浪漫选择。借助科技，我们与这些选择建立联系并进行筛选的能力令人惊叹。那么，为什么依然有如此多的人感到挫败？
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如果想了解几十年前约会和择偶是什么样子的，我推荐 Aziz Ansari 的《Modern Romance》。我本以为它不过就是本消遣读物，但我没记错的话（iirc），他是和一个社会心理学教授合作写的，而且费了很大功夫去世界各地做了大量一手访谈……
For perspective on what dating and marriage choice used to be like decades ago, I recommend Aziz Ansari's "Modern Romance". I didn't expect it to be more than a joyread, but he wrote it in collaboration with a social psychology professor iirc, and went to great lengths to do first hand interviews with many people all over…
我刚读完 Aziz Ansari 的《Modern Romance》——虽然算不上开创性巨作，但极其有趣且很好读。如果你喜欢 Aziz 的脱口秀（standup），这本书基本上就是他客串了 200 页的社会学家。现在我正回头看……
I just finished up Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari -- which, while not groundbreaking, was supremely interesting and readable. If you like Aziz's standup, it's basically him playing sociologist for 200 pages. Right now I'm going back…
《习惯的力量》（The Power of Habit）- Charles Duhigg（强烈推荐）《史蒂夫·乔布斯传》（Steve Jobs）- Walter Isaacson（推荐）《Modern Romance》- Aziz Ansari（推荐听有声书）《回旋镖》（Boomerang）- Michael Lewis（如果你对宏观经济学稍微有点兴趣的话很适合读）《硅谷钢铁侠：埃隆·马斯克的冒险人生》（Elon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future）（推荐）《异类》（Outliers）……
The Power of Habit - Charles Duhigg (highly recommended) Steve Jobs - Walter Isaacson (recommended) Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari (audiobook recommended) Boomerang - Michael Lewis (great if you have a light interest in macroeconomics) Elon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future (recommended) Outliers…
《Modern Romance》- Aziz Ansari
Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari
Aziz Ansari 的《Modern Romance》是一本既有趣又好玩儿的书。
“Modern Romance” by Aziz Ansari is an interesting and entertaining read.
……在甚至还没考虑“爱”这个概念之前。我敢肯定也有研究表明，反复接触一个人会对对其的观感产生积极影响。如果你读过 Aziz Ansari 的《Modern Romance》里的故事，他提到过类似的一件轶事：他认识两个印度哥们儿，一个在 online dating 上怎么都约不到人，另一个则完全只在现实中认识妹子，结果一点问题都没有……
…before even considering the concept of love. I'm sure there's also studies that show repeated exposure of a person has a positive effect on their perception. And if you read the story in Aziz Ansari's Modern Romance, he mentions a similar anecdote where he met two Indian dudes, one who was struggling to meet anyone through online dating, and the other who exclusively just met women in real life and had no problems…