爱的通论
A general theory of love
Lewis, Thomas、Thomas Lewis、Fari Amini、Richard Lannon · 初版 2000 年
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“大脑中一个原始区域造就了所有人共同具有的情感亲密能力与需求。《A General Theory of Love》描述了这种古老而关键的冲动的运作机制，并揭示了我们的神经系统并非自给自足。相反，我们的大脑会以一种构成机体真正生命力的无声节律，与身边亲近之人的大脑相连。这些无言而强大的羁绊决定着我们的情绪，稳定并维系着我们的身心健康，甚至改变我们的大脑结构。”“《A General Theory of Love》将这些见解与其他认知应用于一些……
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不管那份“千本必读书单”里都有啥，我都会把贾雷德·戴蒙德（Jared Diamond）的《枪炮、病菌与钢铁》（Guns, Germs and Steel）和《崩溃》（Collapse），以及托马斯·刘易斯（Thomas Lewis）等人的《爱的原理论》（A General Theory of Love）加进去。
Whatever that list of 1000 must-reads books, I would include "Guns, Germs and Steel" and "Collapse" by Jared Diamond, and "A General Theory of Love" by Thomas Lewis et al.
……人生抉择。它还提出了一种改变和持续自我发展的方法。这里推荐几本关于依恋理论（Attachment Theory）的书：《Attached》https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-You... 《爱的原理论》（A General Theory of Love）https://www.amazon.com/General-Theory-Love-Thomas-Lewis/dp/0... 《成人依恋障碍：全面修复治疗》（Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair）[学术/专业教材] https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Disturbances-Adults-Treatm...……
…life choices. It also suggests a method for change and ongoing personal development. Here are some books on Attachment Theory: Attached https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-You... A General Theory of Love https://www.amazon.com/General-Theory-Love-Thomas-Lewis/dp/0... Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair [academic/professional text] https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Disturbances-Adults-Treatm...…
对于你给的最后一个例子里的那种观念，我强烈推荐读读《爱的原理论》（A General Theory of Love）来解毒。一本极具诗意的美妙之作。
I would highly recommend "A General Theory of Love" as the antidote to belief in the last example you gave. A poetically beautiful book.
T. 刘易斯（T. Lewis）等人著的《爱的原理论》（A General Theory of Love）。
“A General Theory of Love” by T. Lewis et al.
……比如内啡肽或血压之类的指标，你就会发现有人陪伴确实比独自一人更愉悦。已经有海量研究证实了这一点，比如加州大学旧金山分校（UCSF）的教授们在《爱的原理论》（A General Theory of Love）里写到的那些研究。
…something like endorphins or blood pressure, you'd see there was more enjoyment with someone than without. There are tons of studies that already do this, e.g. the ones written up by UCSF profs in "A General Theory of Love."