爱的五种语言
The Five Love Languages
Gary D. Chapman · 初版 1992 年
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为什么值得读
- 帮助识别伴侣各自感知爱意的具体方式
- 为改善夫妻日常沟通提供清晰的框架
- 也可引申用于理解团队成员间的协作沟通
无论单身还是已婚，都不会改变你渴望感受到被爱的需求！每个人在各种人际关系中都怀有对全然且无条件之爱的天生渴望。畅销书 The Five Love Languages 最初是为夫妻所写，至今仍在深刻重塑人际关系。在 The Five Love Languages Singles Edition 中，Dr. Gary Chapman 将这一强有力的信息调整以适应当当下单身成年人的独特需求。理解并运用这五种爱的语言将改善一切人际关系。无论是父母、同事、同学、室友、兄弟姐妹、约会对象还是朋友，The Five Love L……
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……平衡需要重新调整，回到可以接受的平衡状态。然而，挫败感往往来自于我表达对她的爱的方式并不是她能识别和接收到的。盖瑞·查普曼（Gary Chapman）写的《爱的五种语言》（The Five Love Languages）[1]让我豁然开朗。我向所有人推荐这本书。书的前提是，在爱这件事上，我们每个人对怎样才会感到满意有着独特的偏好。你的爱的语言……
…balance needs to be readjusted and brought back to an acceptable equilibrium. However, the frustration often comes from not conveying my love for her in a way she recognizes and receives it. The book The Five Love Languages[1], by Gary Chapman, opened my eyes to this. I'd recommend it to everyone. The premise of the book is that we all have unique preferences for what we find satisfying when it comes to love. Your love language…
丹·夏皮罗（Dan Shapiro）的《谈判不可谈判之事》（Negotiating the Non-Negotiable）罗斯·麦卡蒙（Ross McCammon）的《与他人共事良好》（Works Well With Others）阿曼达·帕尔默（Amanda Palmer）的《请求的艺术》（The Art of Asking）加里·查普曼（Gary Chapman）的《爱的五种语言》（The Five Love Languages）保罗·唐斯（Paul Downs）的《老板生涯：我自己的小公司求生记》（Boss Life: Surviving My Own Small Business）我一直在努力提升自己的“软实力”。
Negotiating the Non-Negotiable, Dan Shapiro Works Well With Others, Ross McCammon The Art of Asking, Amanda Palmer The Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman Boss Life: Surviving My Own Small Business, Paul Downs I've been working on my "soft skills".
如果你正在谈恋爱或处于一段关系中，而且还没读过《爱的五种语言》（The Five Love Languages），那我强烈建议你读一读。在为时已晚之前，它说不定能拯救你们的关系。另外，为了稍微往创业上扯一扯：作为团队成员，我们其实也有“爱的语言”……
If you haven't read "The Five Love Languages" yet and are in a relationship, then I highly suggest you do. It might save it before it's too late. And just to make this slightly more startup-related as well: as team members, we also have "love languages",…
……业务。非创业者的利益相关方并不是普通 bootstrapper 生活中唯一需要理解这一点的人。）改善婚姻沟通的通用荐书：《爱的五种语言》（The Five Love Languages）。
…business. Non-entrepreneur stakeholders are not the only people in the average bootstrapper's life who need to understand that.) Generic book recommendation for improving marital communication: the Five Love Languages.
虽然我觉得你可以爱上任何人，但要真正维持相爱，你得遵循像《爱的五种语言》（The Five Love Languages）和《他的需要，她的需要》（His Needs, Her Needs）这类书里的理念。
While I think you can fall in love with anyone, to actually stay in love you'll need to follow the concepts found in books like "The Five Love Languages" and "His Needs, Her Needs".
停下来，立刻（好吧，等你有空的时候），去读《爱的五种语言》（Five Love Languages）。读完你的婚姻会美满得多。
Stop, right now (okay when you can) and go read the "Five Love Languages". You'll have a much better marriage for it.