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Missing out
Adam Phillips · 初版 2012 年
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本书提供了一些建议，帮助人们放下对“生活本可以如何”的执念，通过拥抱失败、挫折以及生命中其他看似消极却必不可少的元素，去充分享受此时此刻的生活所赋予的一切。
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Missing out
Adam Phillips · 初版 2012 年
本书提供了一些建议，帮助人们放下对“生活本可以如何”的执念，通过拥抱失败、挫折以及生命中其他看似消极却必不可少的元素，去充分享受此时此刻的生活所赋予的一切。
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……与所谓“社会期望”的孤立与脱节。在《Digital Vegan》[1]中，我试着用更通俗的语言去重述一本书里的观点，那本书改变了我的生活。它叫 Adam Phillips 写的《Missing Out》[2]。这本书写得非常晦涩，通篇都是心理治疗术语，让我推荐时都有点犹豫。如果非要挑一个我最想传达的观点，那就是副标题里的“赞颂……
…isolation and disconnection from the so-called "expectations of society". In Digital Vegan [1] I tried to re-word and make more accessible ideas from a book that I found life changing. It is called "Missing Out" by Adam Phillips [2]. It is written in quite dense, psychotherapeutic language that gives me pause to recommend it. If there's just one idea I'd love to get across it is within the subtitle "In Praise…
我想提一下 Adam Phillips 写的《Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life》，里面表达了类似的感受。如果有人经常对自己目前的人生处境感到焦虑或沮丧，当他们……不妨去翻翻看。
I'd like to mention the book "Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life" by Adam Phillips which carries a similar sentiment. It might be worth checking out if anyone regularly feels anxiety or frustration about where they are in life when they…
Adam Phillips 写的《Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life》读起来有点枯燥，但它帮我克服了很大一部分 FOMO 情绪。读那本书的前后，我还把所有的社交媒体账号全注销清空了。……
The book "Missing Out: In Praise of the Unlived Life" by Adam Phillips is a bit dry, but helped me to overcome a lot of my feelings of FOMO. Around the same time I read that, I also purged all of my social media accounts.…
你可以去看看 Adam Phillips 写的《Missing Out》。它基本上是在强调，你应该多肯定自己已经做到的事，并且注意别因为没有一直在忙些什么而给自己太大压力……
You should check out the book "Missing Out" by Adam Phillips. It basically highlights that you should give yourself more credit for the things that you do and that you should be careful not to stress yourself out for not constantly doing something…
……为了美好的生活、尊严与人际关系动态、社会地位等等。在这一领域，心理学和哲学对我的写作都产生了深远的影响。比如 Adam Phillips 的《Missing Out》[3] 以及 John Bowlby 关于依恋理论的著作。我觉得，与数字信息技术建立健康的关系是一条漫漫长路，而且需要极大的勇气和毅力。……
…for good living, dignity and interpersonal dynamics, social status and much more. A powerful influence on my writing in this area has been psychology as much as philosophy. For example Adam Phillips "Missing Out" [3] and the works of John Bowlby on attachment theory. Building healthy relations with digital information technology is a long road I think, and one that requires significant courage and tenacity.…
……让你不再想要那个目标了。如果给你一种超能力，让你只要决定快乐就能快乐，但代价是有可能变成第欧根尼而不是亚历山大大帝，谁会愿意要呢？你必须先验地甘愿错过目前所珍视的一切 [1]。[1] 读读 Adam Phillips 的《Missing Out》吧，里面深刻又发人深省地描绘了这种力量到底有多强大，
…make you not want the goal any more. Given the superpower to simply decide to be happy, but risk becoming Diogenes instead of Alexander the Great, who would take it? You'd have to be a-priori happy with missing out on all you presently hold dear [1]. [1] Read "Missing Out" by Adam Phillips for a deep and disturbing account of how powerful that can be,