Shelly Kagan wrote a great introduction to the philosophy of death [1]. It directly addresses many of the OP's arguments, and, it persuaded me that it's not a black and white issue (ie. immortality = ultimate good) [1] https://www.amazon.com/Death-Open-Courses-Shelly-Kagan/dp/03...
I really enjoyed the Yale open courses. Less technical, but enjoyable nonetheless. My personal favourite is the on Death by Professor Kagan. He runs through all the philosophical theories of death, going through their strong and weak points. https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 The psychology 101 is good as well.
Death With Shelly Kagan (Philosophy 176, Yale) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&list=PLEA18FAF1A... I don't know why, I've listened it through more than once and enjoyed it a lot.
…on that a little while ago by Shelly Kagan (decent excerpt at [1]). I think the evolutionary perspective is clearly "correct," but it doesn't quite answer the big questions for me. It establishes that "death is bad" is an axiom of our ethical system (and not a theorem of it,) but it has nothing to say when we ask whether we should attempt to adjust our morality. 1: http://chronicle.com/article/Is-Death-Bad-for-You-/131818/
https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 This course on Open Yale called "Death". Shelly Kagan talks about whether the soul exists, what death means for the individual, why/whether death is bad, and finally the issue of suicide.
Shelly Kagan 写了一本非常棒的死亡哲学入门书 [1]。它直接回应了楼主（OP）的许多论点，并且它让我相信这不是一个非黑即白的问题（即：永生 = 绝对的好）[1] https://www.amazon.com/Death-Open-Courses-Shelly-Kagan/dp/03...
Shelly Kagan wrote a great introduction to the philosophy of death [1]. It directly addresses many of the OP's arguments, and, it persuaded me that it's not a black and white issue (ie. immortality = ultimate good) [1] https://www.amazon.com/Death-Open-Courses-Shelly-Kagan/dp/03...
我真的很喜欢耶鲁公开课。虽然学术硬核度没那么高，但依然很受用。我个人最喜欢的是 Kagan 教授关于“死亡”的那门课。他过了一遍所有关于死亡的哲学理论，分析了各自的优缺点。https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 心理学导论那门也很不错。
I really enjoyed the Yale open courses. Less technical, but enjoyable nonetheless. My personal favourite is the on Death by Professor Kagan. He runs through all the philosophical theories of death, going through their strong and weak points. https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 The psychology 101 is good as well.
Shelly Kagan 的《死亡》（耶鲁大学公开课，Philosophy 176）https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&list=PLEA18FAF1A... 不知为什么，我从头到尾听了不止一遍，特别喜欢。
Death With Shelly Kagan (Philosophy 176, Yale) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&list=PLEA18FAF1A... I don't know why, I've listened it through more than once and enjoyed it a lot.
我反反复复看了不止一遍的课程：耶鲁大学 Shelly Kagan 的《死亡》https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&list=PLEA18FAF1A...
The one I've enjoyed watching more than once: Death with Shelly Kagan, Yale https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&list=PLEA18FAF1A...
……不久前 Shelly Kagan 谈过这个话题（[1] 有不错的节选）。我认为进化视角显然是“正确的”，但它并没有真正回答我心中的大问题。它确立了“死亡是坏事”是我们伦理体系的一条公理（而不是定理），但当我们问是否应该调整我们的道德时，它却无话可说。 1: http://chronicle.com/article/Is-Death-Bad-for-You-/131818/
…on that a little while ago by Shelly Kagan (decent excerpt at [1]). I think the evolutionary perspective is clearly "correct," but it doesn't quite answer the big questions for me. It establishes that "death is bad" is an axiom of our ethical system (and not a theorem of it,) but it has nothing to say when we ask whether we should attempt to adjust our morality. 1: http://chronicle.com/article/Is-Death-Bad-for-You-/131818/
https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 耶鲁公开课上这门叫作《死亡》的课程。Shelly Kagan 探讨了灵魂是否存在、死亡对个体意味着什么、死亡为什么/是否是一件坏事，最后探讨了自杀问题。
https://oyc.yale.edu/death/phil-176 This course on Open Yale called "Death". Shelly Kagan talks about whether the soul exists, what death means for the individual, why/whether death is bad, and finally the issue of suicide.