…成人片是给那些能共情被贬低者的人看的吗？我交往过喜欢这种成人片的女生（注意是复数）。当然我这不是随机抽样，但看看《万亿邪念》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts）和《人类女性性行为的进化生物学》（The Evolutionary Biology of Human Female Sexuality）这类书，或者 Meredith Chivers 的研究：BDSM 风格的欲望似乎比媒体通常描绘的要普遍得多。
…porn' meant for people who identify with the person being degraded? I've dated women (note the plural) who were into this sort of porn. I'm not a random sample, obviously, but take a look at books like A Billion Wicked Thoughts and The Evolutionary Biology of Human Female Sexuality, or Meredith Chivers' work: bdsm-style desires appear to be more common than is commonly depicted in the media.
我强烈推荐 Sai Gaddam 和 Ogi Ogas 写的《万亿邪念：全球最大实验揭示的人类欲望》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire）。这是大数据应用于人类性心理研究的典范。必读书目！
I strongly recommend 'A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire' by Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas. It's big data applied to the study of human sexuality. Essential reading!
…attracted to heterosexuals. For instance, there's a large section of porn for gay men dedicated to displaying straight men in sexual situations, usually with other men. (Source: http://www.amazon.com/Billion-Wicked-Thoughts-Largest-Experi...)
…做过的坏事，都应该看作在某种程度上超出了我们的掌控。每当想起自己搜过的那些最离谱的 Google 搜索词（NSFW 内容），我就会想：“害，我不过就是一段化学反应罢了。”不过话又说回来，读了《万亿邪念》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts）之后，我发现自己其实挺大众平淡（vanilla）的，大家只是不把这些事公开摆到台面上说罢了。也许是我生活比较无趣，但即便听别人讲，一切似乎也都在合情合理的范围内。我知道这是一种“事后…
…bad thing you did, should be seen as somewhat outside our control. I think of my worst google searches (nsfw stuff) and think: "Well, I'm just a chemical reaction." But then again, I read the book A Billion Wicked Thoughts and found I'm pretty vanilla, we just don't talk about these things out loud. Maybe my life is tame, but even when I hear from other people, everything seems pretty reasonable. I know this is an 'after…
…成人片是给那些能共情被贬低者的人看的吗？我交往过喜欢这种成人片的女生（注意是复数）。当然我这不是随机抽样，但看看《万亿邪念》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts）和《人类女性性行为的进化生物学》（The Evolutionary Biology of Human Female Sexuality）这类书，或者 Meredith Chivers 的研究：BDSM 风格的欲望似乎比媒体通常描绘的要普遍得多。
…porn' meant for people who identify with the person being degraded? I've dated women (note the plural) who were into this sort of porn. I'm not a random sample, obviously, but take a look at books like A Billion Wicked Thoughts and The Evolutionary Biology of Human Female Sexuality, or Meredith Chivers' work: bdsm-style desires appear to be more common than is commonly depicted in the media.
我强烈推荐 Sai Gaddam 和 Ogi Ogas 写的《万亿邪念：全球最大实验揭示的人类欲望》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire）。这是大数据应用于人类性心理研究的典范。必读书目！
I strongly recommend 'A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire' by Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas. It's big data applied to the study of human sexuality. Essential reading!
…会被异性恋吸引。举个例子，男同性恋成人片里有很大一个分区专门展示直男在性场景中的表现，通常是和其他男人一起。（来源：http://www.amazon.com/Billion-Wicked-Thoughts-Largest-Experi...）
…attracted to heterosexuals. For instance, there's a large section of porn for gay men dedicated to displaying straight men in sexual situations, usually with other men. (Source: http://www.amazon.com/Billion-Wicked-Thoughts-Largest-Experi...)
…做过的坏事，都应该看作在某种程度上超出了我们的掌控。每当想起自己搜过的那些最离谱的 Google 搜索词（NSFW 内容），我就会想：“害，我不过就是一段化学反应罢了。”不过话又说回来，读了《万亿邪念》（A Billion Wicked Thoughts）之后，我发现自己其实挺大众平淡（vanilla）的，大家只是不把这些事公开摆到台面上说罢了。也许是我生活比较无趣，但即便听别人讲，一切似乎也都在合情合理的范围内。我知道这是一种“事后…
…bad thing you did, should be seen as somewhat outside our control. I think of my worst google searches (nsfw stuff) and think: "Well, I'm just a chemical reaction." But then again, I read the book A Billion Wicked Thoughts and found I'm pretty vanilla, we just don't talk about these things out loud. Maybe my life is tame, but even when I hear from other people, everything seems pretty reasonable. I know this is an 'after…