我们从来不是那样
The way we never were
Stephanie Coontz · 初版 1992 年
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“《The Way We Never Were》审视了两个世纪以来的家庭生活，粉碎了那些压在现代家庭心头、令他们对过去念念不忘的迷思。”“在全新撰写的导言中，Coontz审视了自1992年初版以来的重大文化事件——从比尔·克林顿的性丑闻到全美各地的校园枪击案——并重新剖析了那些不断促使美国人渴望一个从未存在过的过去的迷思。”——书封折页。
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……发现的。当一个人是家里的经济支柱，而另一个人实际上处于残障/部分残障状态时，也同样如此。我不知道你有没有读过这本书，但它写得非常引人入胜。https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/046509... 当然，关于过去究竟是怎么样的，这本书并不是终极标准答案。我认为我们在这里真正要面对的，是社会秩序的瓦解，在这种秩序下孩子们能得到充分的……
…found. This can be true when one person is the breadwinner and the other is practically/partially disabled, too. I don't know if you've read this book, but it is fascinating. https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/046509... Of course, this book isn't the be-all answer to how things really were. I would suggest what we're really grappling with here is a breakdown in social order where kids are adequately…
……人与人之间存在着极高水平的合作？我不想给你施加太大的举证负担，但我挺好奇的。另外，如果大家有机会的话，请看看斯蒂芬妮·库茨（Stephanie Coontz）写的《我们从未如此：美国家庭与怀旧陷阱》（The Way We Never Were）。它很好地审视了美国家庭随时间演变的趋势和活动。
…that there were incredibly high levels of cooperation between people? I don't want to put a huge burden of evidence of you, but am curious. Also if anyone gets a chance please look into the book "The Way We Never Were" by Stephanie Coontz. Good examination of American family trends and activities over time.
……似乎强化了一种不健康且压抑的规范，依我拙见，长远来看这最终会导致大量关系的破裂。作为延伸阅读，我强烈推荐斯蒂芬妮·库茨的《我们从未如此》，了解为什么这种 20 世纪中叶风格的关系在历史长河中其实是极不寻常的。https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/046509... 编辑：排版格式修改
…seems to reinforce unhealthy and oppressive norms that, in my strong opinion, lead eventually to so many destructing relationships in the long run. For additional reading, I'd greatly recommend "The Way We Never Were" by Stephanie Coontz as to why this mid-century style relationship was highly unusual in the historical context. https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/046509... Edit: Formatting
……年纪轻轻就决定生孩子的母亲们。我觉得你可能会发现这是一部很有意思的作品，即使它描写的时空有所不同，也能与你家人的经历产生共鸣。- https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia-ebook/dp/... 这是在探讨美国人审视过去的视角，以及我们常常如何把宣传口号或中产阶级的期许误当成历史的真相。我也有点在虚度自己的……
…mothers, who decided to have kids very young. I think you might find this a fascinating work, harmonious with your family's experience, even if it's from a different time and place. - https://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia-ebook/dp/... This is a discussion of American lenses on the past and how we often misread propaganda or middle class expectations as being what really happened. I also am sort of loafing my…
虽然比起教育，它更偏向社会价值观，但《我们从未如此：美国家庭与怀旧陷阱》这本书最近刚在谈话中被提到，它专门讨论了我们如何用自带滤镜的美化眼光去看待过去。http://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/0465090...
Although more about social values than education, the book "The Way We Never Were: American Families And The Nostalgia Trap" just came up in conversation recently, and it deals specifically with the way we view the past through rose colored glasses. http://www.amazon.com/Way-We-Never-Were-Nostalgia/dp/0465090...