……去建设一个健全的社会。弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》（The Art Of Loving）——分析了不同种类的爱，试图破除流行文化关于爱的谎言，指出爱其实是需要艰苦付出的；欧内斯特·贝克尔（Ernest Becker）的《拒斥死亡》（The Denial of Death）——探讨了并非我们对死亡的恐惧、而是我们对死亡存在的彻底否认是如何导致我们社会中各种最离奇的结果的。然后是政治类的——奥威尔的散文集，任何一本大一点的选集都行。我觉得奥威尔……
…to build towards a sane society Fromm's The Art Of Loving - an analysis of different kinds of loves, trying to dispel pop culture's lies about love, and love is actually hard work Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death - on how not our fear, but our complete denial of death existing leads to the weirdest outcomes in our society Then there's political stuff - Orwell's Essays, any large-ish collection. I find Orwell…
This post brings up the connection between desire for achievement and mortality. The book "The Denial of Death" by Ernest Becker is an excellent perspective on this phenomenon. The central premise of the book is that, in order to feel comfortable about our own inevitable mortality, we seek achievements that make…
my favorite literature on the subject is Ernest Becker The Denial of Death. A great book. This article is (not that I ever had expectations from the newyorker.com but even for their low standards) total pish. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Denial_of_Death
The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker I was not prepared to read this book when I did, and its ideas have haunted me since. They have kept me awake many a night.
……去建设一个健全的社会。弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》（The Art Of Loving）——分析了不同种类的爱，试图破除流行文化关于爱的谎言，指出爱其实是需要艰苦付出的；欧内斯特·贝克尔（Ernest Becker）的《拒斥死亡》（The Denial of Death）——探讨了并非我们对死亡的恐惧、而是我们对死亡存在的彻底否认是如何导致我们社会中各种最离奇的结果的。然后是政治类的——奥威尔的散文集，任何一本大一点的选集都行。我觉得奥威尔……
…to build towards a sane society Fromm's The Art Of Loving - an analysis of different kinds of loves, trying to dispel pop culture's lies about love, and love is actually hard work Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death - on how not our fear, but our complete denial of death existing leads to the weirdest outcomes in our society Then there's political stuff - Orwell's Essays, any large-ish collection. I find Orwell…
欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》是一本好书。
Denial of Death by Ernest Becker is a great read.
这篇帖子提到了成就欲望与死亡宿命之间的联系。欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》为这种现象提供了一个绝佳的视角。全书的核心前提是：为了让自己面对不可避免的死亡时心里好受些，我们去追求那些能让我们……的成就。
This post brings up the connection between desire for achievement and mortality. The book "The Denial of Death" by Ernest Becker is an excellent perspective on this phenomenon. The central premise of the book is that, in order to feel comfortable about our own inevitable mortality, we seek achievements that make…
关于这个主题，我最喜欢的作品是欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》。非常棒的一本书。而这篇文章（倒不是说我对 newyorker.com 抱有什么期望，但就算按他们的低标准来看）纯属扯淡。https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Denial_of_Death
my favorite literature on the subject is Ernest Becker The Denial of Death. A great book. This article is (not that I ever had expectations from the newyorker.com but even for their low standards) total pish. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Denial_of_Death
欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》。我读这本书的时候完全没做好心理准备，自那以后书里的思想一直缠绕着我，让我许多个夜晚辗转难眠。
The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker I was not prepared to read this book when I did, and its ideas have haunted me since. They have kept me awake many a night.
我建议你读读欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》。这本书篇幅很长，讲的是死亡焦虑以及人类是如何试图应对这一问题的。
I recommend you read "The Denial of Death" by Ernest Becker. It is at length a book on death anxiety and how humans attempt to cope with the subject.