漂流的男孩
Boys Adrift
M. D., Ph. D., Leonard Sax · 初版 2007 年
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当下的男孩们身上正在发生一些令人心惊的事情。从幼儿园到大学，美国男孩的坚韧度和进取心平均而言都低于短短二十年前。大学入学率和毕业率上的性别差距急剧扩大。当 Emily 在学校努力用功、各科拿 A 时，她的哥哥 Justin 却在虚度光阴。相比完成家庭作业，他更关心如何在电子游戏中升到下一级。如今，Leonard Sax 博士深入钻研科学文献，并凭借二十余年的临床经验，解释了为什么男孩和年
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……能更贴近真实的自我做人，不必时刻担心女生怎么看自己。作为几个男孩的父亲，我深有同感。如果谁对这个话题感兴趣，我推荐心理学家莱昂纳德·萨克斯（Leonard Sax）的《浮萍男孩》（Boys Adrift），以及儿科医生梅格·米克（Meg Meeker）博士的《养育男孩》（Boys Should Be Boys）。两本书对当下美国男孩所面临的一些困境都极具启发性。
…act closer to their true selves etc. without having to worry about how they're perceived by the girls. As the father of several boys, I agree. For anyone interested more in this concept, I recommend "Boys Adrift" by Leonard Sax (a psychologist) and "Boys Should Be Boys" by Dr. Meg Meeker (a pediatrician). Both books are very enlightening about some of the problems our boys face in America.
关于这个话题有一本书，叫《浮萍男孩》，是莱昂纳德·萨克斯博士写的。强烈推荐。我读完有一阵子了，但他提到的几点动态包括：1. 孩子入学的年龄逐渐提前了。这已经演变到了……
There's a book on this topic, it's called Boys Adrift, by Dr. Leonard Sax. I highly recommend it. It's been a while since I read it but some of the dynamics he talks about are: 1. The age at which children start school has gradually lowered. This has reached…
建议去读读《浮萍男孩》（Boys Adrift，https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Adrift-Epidemic-Unmotivated-Unde...）这本书。它切中的正好就是这个话题。
I suggest reading the book Boys Adrift (https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Adrift-Epidemic-Unmotivated-Unde...). It speaks to exactly this topic.
莱昂纳德·萨克斯的《浮萍男孩：驱动不求上进的男孩与碌碌无为的年轻男性这一蔓延顽疾的五大因素》（Boys Adrift）一书，非常详细地剖析了导致这一现象的深层原因。
The book "Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men" by Leonard Sax goes into a lot of detail behind some of the underlying problems causing this.
如果你觉得这篇文章有意思或者很有说服力，去看看《浮萍男孩》[0]吧。你可能不一定会全盘赞同萨克斯的结论，但如果你自己家里有男孩，这绝对是必读书目。[0] http://www.boysadrift.com/
If you find this article interesting or compelling, please check out Boys Adrift[0]. You may not necessarily agree with all of Sax's conclusions, but if you have boys of your own, it should be required reading. [0] http://www.boysadrift.com/
我并不觉得那些男生都非得去上大学不可，但他们显然需要有一技之长。确实如此，我们现在看到的一切，正是《浮萍男孩》那本书里所描绘的结果。我的大儿子刚高中毕业。他目前对上大学毫无兴趣，但在动手方面展现出了天赋。他现在正跟着一位熟人做木工学徒……
I’m not convinced that all those men need to go to college, but they clearly need something. This. We are seeing the results of what was reported in the book Boys Adrift. My older son just graduated high school. He has no interest in college at the moment, and has shown a gift for working with his hands. He is currently doing a carpentry apprenticeship with an acquaintance…