《反脆弱》（Antifragile，塔勒布）、《看不见的城市》（Invisible Cities，卡尔维诺）、《鞑靼人沙漠》（The Tartar Steppe / Il deserto dei tartari，迪诺·布扎蒂）、《人性的弱点》（How to Win Friends and Influence People，戴尔·卡耐基）
Antifragile by Nassim Taleb Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino Il deserto dei tartari (The Tartar Steppe) by Dino Buzzati How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
既然时间是楼主问题的核心，迪诺·布扎蒂的《鞑靼人沙漠》（The Tartar Steppe，1940年在意大利出版时名为 Il deserto dei Tartari）就是一部探讨生活与时间的绝佳小说。换句话说，也就是我们在度过人生时常犯的错误：没有明确的目标或乐趣，白白浪费光阴。我二十几岁时读过它……
Since time is a key part of the OP's question, The Tartar Steppe by Dino Buzzati (published in Italy in 1940 as Il deserto dei Tartari) is an excellent novel about life and time. In other words, the mistakes we often make with how we spend our lives, time wasted without a clear purpose or enjoyment. I read it when I was in my twenties…
……最好的一本是贝基·钱伯斯的《给野性造物的诗》（A Psalm for the Wild-Built）。我原本是出于对 solarpunk 题材的好奇才去读的，结果在自我接纳方面对我有些许帮助。除此以外，还有迪诺·布扎蒂的《鞑靼人沙漠》（Il deserto dei Tartari，英文版：https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tartar_Steppe）。在思考时光流逝时，它给了我不一样的视角。其实我听的是有声书，不过我倒不……
…of the best was "A Psalm for the Wild-Built" by Becky Chambers. I was reading it out of curiosity for the solarpunk genre, it ended up helping me a bit on the self-acceptance side. Other than that, "Il deserto dei Tartari" by Dino Buzzati (in english: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tartar_Steppe). Gave me some different point of view when thinking about time passing by. This was actually an audio-book, but I don't…
《反脆弱》（Antifragile，塔勒布）、《看不见的城市》（Invisible Cities，卡尔维诺）、《鞑靼人沙漠》（The Tartar Steppe / Il deserto dei tartari，迪诺·布扎蒂）、《人性的弱点》（How to Win Friends and Influence People，戴尔·卡耐基）
Antifragile by Nassim Taleb Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino Il deserto dei tartari (The Tartar Steppe) by Dino Buzzati How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
既然时间是楼主问题的核心，迪诺·布扎蒂的《鞑靼人沙漠》（The Tartar Steppe，1940年在意大利出版时名为 Il deserto dei Tartari）就是一部探讨生活与时间的绝佳小说。换句话说，也就是我们在度过人生时常犯的错误：没有明确的目标或乐趣，白白浪费光阴。我二十几岁时读过它……
Since time is a key part of the OP's question, The Tartar Steppe by Dino Buzzati (published in Italy in 1940 as Il deserto dei Tartari) is an excellent novel about life and time. In other words, the mistakes we often make with how we spend our lives, time wasted without a clear purpose or enjoyment. I read it when I was in my twenties…
……最好的一本是贝基·钱伯斯的《给野性造物的诗》（A Psalm for the Wild-Built）。我原本是出于对 solarpunk 题材的好奇才去读的，结果在自我接纳方面对我有些许帮助。除此以外，还有迪诺·布扎蒂的《鞑靼人沙漠》（Il deserto dei Tartari，英文版：https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tartar_Steppe）。在思考时光流逝时，它给了我不一样的视角。其实我听的是有声书，不过我倒不……
…of the best was "A Psalm for the Wild-Built" by Becky Chambers. I was reading it out of curiosity for the solarpunk genre, it ended up helping me a bit on the self-acceptance side. Other than that, "Il deserto dei Tartari" by Dino Buzzati (in english: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tartar_Steppe). Gave me some different point of view when thinking about time passing by. This was actually an audio-book, but I don't…