简单父母经
Simplicity parenting
Kim John Payne · 初版 2009 年
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当今这个更忙碌、节奏更快、体量过载的社会，正在向童年发动一场不宣而战的“战争”。随着生活节奏提升至超高速——东西太多、选择太多、时间太少——孩子们感受到了重重压力。他们可能会变得焦虑，在同伴交往和学校生活中遇到困难，甚至被诊断出行为问题。如今，为了捍卫“少即是多”的非凡力量，国际著名家庭顾问 Kim John Payne 帮助父母为孩子争取所有孩子都需要的空间与自由，让孩子的注意力得以聚焦，个性得以……
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……里的理念对我帮助最大：* Magda Gerber 的 RIE 理念（参见 https://www.janetlansbury.com），在3岁前尤其好用 * Ryan Holiday 的“The Daily Dad”邮件通讯（现在也出书了） * Kim Payne 和 Lisa Ross 写的《Simplicity Parenting》 * Bryan Caplan 的《Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids》虽然没太多具体的实用建议，但基本上教会了我为人父母只需放轻松、享受育儿之乐，不用去担心……
…had ideas that helped me the most: * Magda Gerber's RIE Philosophy (see https://www.janetlansbury.com), especially useful before age 3 * Ryan Holiday's "The Daily Dad" e-mail list (now also a book) * "Simplicity Parenting" by Kim Payne and Lisa Ross * "Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids" by Bryan Caplan didn't have much specifically useful advice, but basically taught me to just relax and have fun as a parent, and not worry…
……用你希望他们成年后应对冲突的方式去应对冲突。一些对我很有帮助的育儿建议：- The Daily Dad：通过电子邮件发送的每日育儿建议与理念 https://dailydad.com/ - 书籍：《Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids》，作者 Kim John Payne 和 Lisa M. Ross - Janet Lansbury 的播客与博客 https://www.janetlansbury.com/
…Respond to conflicts the way you would hope they do as an adult. Some parenting advice that has helped me: -The daily dad: daily parenting tips and philosophy by e-mail https://dailydad.com/ -Book: Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross -Podcasts and blogs from Janet Landsbury https://www.janetlansbury.com/
……父母……我怀疑 PTSD 在中产和精英阶层的孩子里相当普遍，但人们断然否认这种可能性，这些孩子可能会被诊断成别的什么问题。Kim John Payne 写的《Simplicity Parenting》这本书非常有意思，因为他原本是一名在战争难民营里和儿童打交道的心理学家，后来又接触了来自高压家庭的美国中产阶层孩子，……
…parents... I suspect PTSD is widespread among kids in the middle and upper class, but people categorically deny the possibility of it, and these kids may instead be diagnosed with something else. The book "Simplicity Parenting" by Kim John Payne was really interesting, because he was actually a psychologist that worked with children in war refugee camps, and later worked with middle class American children from stressful households,…
《Simplicity Parenting》读起来很轻松，而且非常棒。有声书也做得很不错。:)
Simplicity Parenting is an easy and amazing read. The Audiobook is pretty good as well. :)
有一本书叫《Simplicity Parenting》，我强烈推荐。基本上你说的没错。父母整天为时事焦虑会让孩子患上 PTSD。依我看，我们的职责就是在他们长到一定年龄之前把他们保护起来，直到……
There is a book called “Simplicity Parenting” which I highly recommend. Basically, you’re right. Parents can cause PTSD in their children by fretting about current events. I’m my opinion, it is our job to insulate them until they are of an age where…