爱的艺术
The Art of Loving
Erich Fromm · 初版 1956 年
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为什么值得读
- 揭示爱是一项需要学习与付出的实践
- 分析多种不同形式的爱与心理机制
- 破除现代流行文化对爱情的误导
“The Art of Loving”（1956年）是精神分析学家兼社会哲学家 Erich Fromm 的开创性著作。在本书中，Fromm 深刻而全面地探讨了爱的概念，指出爱不仅是一种被动的情感，更是一门需要练习、知识与努力的艺术。通过详尽的剖析，Fromm 破除了爱只是偶然发生的迷思，提出爱必须像其他技能一样加以培养。他将爱划分为不同的类别，包括博爱、母爱、性爱、自爱以及对上帝的爱，探讨了其特……
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最经典的解释来自埃里希·弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》，意译过来就是：“对人类而言，人生的根本问题在于面对焦虑时如何获取安全感，而这种焦虑源于我们意识到独自一人时面对敌对力量是如此脆弱……
The classic explanation is from E. Fromm, The Art of Loving with, to paraphrase, "For humans the fundamental problem of life is getting a feeling of security in the face of the anxiety from our realization that alone we are vulnerable to the hostile forces of…
……哲学/心理学或文化人类学对我来说真是让人脑洞大开。埃里希·弗洛姆的《健全的社会》——探讨社会如何影响人们的心理健康，以及如何建设一个健全的社会；弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》——剖析了不同种类的爱，试图打破流行文化关于爱的谎言，指出爱其实需要付出艰苦努力；欧内斯特·贝克尔的《拒斥死亡》——探讨并非我们的恐惧，而是我们对死亡的彻底否认……
…philosophy/psychology, or cultural anthropology, is mind-bending to me. Erich Fromm's The Sane Society - on how society impacts people's mental health, and how to build towards a sane society Fromm's The Art Of Loving - an analysis of different kinds of loves, trying to dispel pop culture's lies about love, and love is actually hard work Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death - on how not our fear, but our complete denial…
……你需要对情绪有极其全面的了解，还有焦虑、强迫念头、力比多、两面三刀、操纵手段、欺骗等等。关于人类心理学，我找到的最好的单一信息来源是埃里希·弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》，但光看这本还不够。去了解组织行为学。了解管理学，尤其是可以从美军那里借鉴几点。弄懂政治是如何运作的，并在需要的时候……
…you need to know about emotions quite generally and also anxieties, obsessions, libido, duplicity, manipulations, deceptions, etc. The best single source I found on human psychology is E. Fromm, The Art of Loving, but alone it is not enough. Learn about organizational behavior. Learn about management and, in particular, borrow some points from the US military. Know how politics works, and, when you need to,…
……多看些戏剧，理解电影和电视剧的戏剧冲突是如何运作的。随便从哪儿补充点关于“人与人格”的基础知识，尤其是人类的情绪。比如在没别的东西可看时，读读弗洛姆的《爱的艺术》。想要进一步提升，让孩子去上点社区大学的课程，比如生物化学和生物学。若想更进一步，看看国际文凭（IB）课程，从中挑挑选选，或者可能干脆……
…more in drama, understand how movie and TV dramas work. Somewhere get some basic coverage of 'people and personality', especially about human emotions. E.g., lacking anything else, read E. Fromm, 'The Art of Loving'. For more, have the child take some community college courses, e.g., biochemistry and biology. For more, look at the International Baccalaureate program and pick and choose from that or, maybe, just…
埃里希·弗洛姆在《爱的艺术》一书中对此做了极好的探讨。他提出，在当今社会，我们过于看重被爱的对象，而在学习如何去爱上投入太少。因此我们拼命寻找尽可能最好的伴侣，之后又可能会产生动摇……
This is very well discussed in Erich Fromm's book "The art of loving". He proposed that in today's society we put too much value on the object of love, and too little in learning how to love. Thus we look intensely for the best possible partner and we may have second thoughts…
《爱的艺术》虽然有些地方显得略有过时（尤其是弗洛姆对同性恋的看法），但整体而言是一本极佳的精悍小书，我每隔几年就会重读一遍。我一直很喜欢他对……的定义
The Art of Loving, while feeling a bit dated in some parts (especially Fromm's views on homosexuality), is on the whole a fantastic, short little book that I reread every few years or so. I always liked his definition…